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看不見的奢侈品，你擁有多少？

2011-07-31T09:01:00.000-07:00

本來以為，他所說的奢侈品可能是香水，珠寶，名牌服裝，手錶……看了之後才明白，原來我太膚淺了，

但我也慶幸，這25件奢侈品，我並不是一無所有其實。。。

這些奢侈品好多就在自己的身邊，只是已經習慣了他們的存在，而變得理所當然了。。。。

《蝸居》裡面，宋思明說：「可以用錢解決的問題，也就不是問題了」確實如此，但是人的一生中，

最奢侈的東西並不是擁有很多的財富就能同時擁有的相反，懂得去欣賞、去發現生命中真正能讓我們有發自內心喜悅的「奢侈」品才是最重要的

下面是一生人可以擁有的25件奢侈品，你擁有了多少？

2 舒心的工作

3 起風的天總有人提醒你加衣

4 睡著的時候總有人為你蓋被

5 穿上便宜T恤也很美麗的健康身材

6 寫得一手好字

7 想旅行時，總有談得來的朋友願意請假陪伴

8 每天都能踏實地睡個好覺

9 會欣賞美麗的心和能欣賞美麗的心情

10 每時每刻都過得有意義和幸福

11 一個教會你愛和被愛的人

12 你為之甘心付出的寶寶

13 心中永遠的自由

14 帶給他人向上的精神特質

15 學會放棄

16 學會承受

17 接受並珍惜生活賜予你的一切

18 親自播種，收穫

19 珍藏一件凝聚情感的物品

20 尋找失落的童心

21 心境開闊

22 信守一個諾言

23 嘗盡美食

24 偶爾使個小小壞

25 把你所能想到的一件浪漫的事變為現實

一生只有两天：「第一天」和「最后一天」

2011-07-18T07:57:00.000-07:00

一生只有两天：「第一天」和「最后一天」..

就先从贾伯斯追女朋友讲起囉！

贾伯斯是谁？

他是苹果公司的创办人，是世界第一部个人电脑的发明人之一，也就是出產iPhone公司的老板。

话说1985年，贾伯斯被自己创立的苹果公司扫地出门！

可以想像当时的打击有多大，但是贾伯斯只鬱卒了一下子，很快他就振作起来了。有一天他在一所大学演讲，「她」坐在听眾席聆听，贾伯斯被剎到了。

活动一结束，贾伯斯就去跟「她」聊天，拿到了电话号码。

原本想开口约「她」当天晚上一起吃晚餐，可是又正好有个会议要开，

只好把快要说出口的话，吞了回去..

当贾伯斯準备去开车离开时，他问了自己一个「老问题」，

这是他每天早上面对镜子问自己的一个问题 -

「如果今天是我这辈子的最后一天，我今天要做些什麼？」

… …

答案出来了，贾伯斯马上跑回去演讲厅找「她」，约去共进晚餐。

这位「她」- LaurenePowel – 现在就是贾伯斯的老婆。

引述贾伯斯的一段话：

「提醒自己快死了，是我在人生中面临重大决定时，所用过最重要的方法。因为几乎每件事－所有外界期望、所有的名声、所有对困窘或失败的恐惧－在面对死亡时，都消失了，只有最真实重要的东西才会留下。」

小时候

2011-07-17T08:15:00.001-07:00

小时候，有个习惯。
每每放完了两个月的学校假期，我会有很沉重的心情要回去学校开学上课。
我就会把日历翻开，然后用手指慢慢的点算每一天，明年一共要上多少天的课。

算完了后，都会很伤心的在心理想：“哇，一共有白多天咧，要怎样去挨哦？”。现在回想起来，真的觉得小时候的自己很好笑，也不知道自己是怎样度过了这么多年的读书生涯。

现在工作了的我，再也不能像从前那样，拿起日历，算着我还有多少的工作天。只知道自己几时会出粮，哈哈。

工作的生涯似乎很遥遥无期，现在的我只是27岁,我大慨还要再作28年的工吧。

哇！28年咧~！如果工作的不开心，那不是要不开心多28年？倒不如学会如何让自己工作得更开心？

希望我能早一点发达，酱我就可以去环游世界咯，拍更多更多美美的照片~！！

Loh Yoke Ling Birthday Celebration at Full House

2011-03-16T07:38:00.000-07:00

13th Mar 2011 is that soh poh birthday. (Is also Jing Ying Wedding day,hehe...)

After attend a wedding lunch at Muar, I rushed back from there back to Puchong. Well you know the North South highway traffic was not that good during weekend.

Me and Jon Jon took total 2.30hour to reach Puchong. Normally can reach in 2hours...

Once reached home, was 7pm. Jon wasn't feeling well, got a bit flue. But he insist to go. * Happy that he can accompany me go there, so that he can meet all of my friends too*

Waited him for 30minutes to take bath and prepare the camera. *scare later he go there will be sien*

When everything ready at 7.45pm. Outside suddenly rain heavily. So sad, if we rush out to get the car, sure wet like the chicken.

No choice, we have to rush to the car, as Ann Nee keep calling me to reach the destination as early as possible, as they already reached that place.

Using 1 smalll umbrella to reach my car, both of us wet our bottom part...LOL

Me quite angry that time, thinking that wanna ffk my friends. * as usual me very bad temper*

I keep mumbling in the car while I was driving. Luckily my Jon Jon is always a nice temper person. He keep console me so that I can feel better.

Once reached there, my temper all gone, seeing those my long time no see and lovely friends.

Me and Jon were the last couple to reach there...And they all eaten.

We shared the food, as we were still quite full.

Ah Ling's bf gave her a instant camera, so damn nice. But only got 10 film inside. And 1 roll of film cost around RM30 to RM35. *small size*

After that, the cake brought out by a waiter, which Ann Nee has bought it early and ask the shop to keep it 1st.

We sang the birthday song to the birthday girl. And shoot alot photos there...

Have a fun time with my friends although is a bit tired day.

Loh Yoke Ling: Wish you happy birthday and marry as soon as possible. * so that i can bully ur kid,hehe*

阿pak 炸鸡 KFC Uncle Success Story

2011-02-23T06:35:00.000-08:00

有一个人，一生中经历了1009次失败。
但他却说：一次成功就够了。

5岁时，他的父亲突然病逝，没有留下任何财产。
整个家里就只有母亲外出做工。
年幼的他在家照顾弟妹，并学会自己做饭。

12岁时，母亲改嫁，继父对他十分严厉，常在母亲外出时痛打他。

14岁时，他辍学离校，开始了流浪生活。

16岁时，他谎报年龄参加了远征军。
因航行途中晕船厉害，被提前遣送回乡。

18岁时，他娶了个媳妇。
但只过了几个月，媳妇就变卖了他所有的财产逃回娘家。

20岁时，他当电工、开轮渡，
后来又当铁路工人，没有一样工作顺利。

30岁时，他在保险公司从事推销工作，
后因奖金问题与老板闹翻而辞职。

31岁时，他自学法律，并在朋友的鼓动下干起了律师行当。
一次审案时，竟在法庭上与当事人大打出手。

32岁时，他失业了，生活非常艰难。

35岁时，不幸又一次降临到他的头上。
当他开车路过一座大桥时，大桥钢绳断裂。
他连人带车跌到河中，身受重伤，无法再干轮胎推销员工作。

40岁时，他在一个镇上开了一家加油站，
因挂广告牌把竞争对手打伤，引来一场纠纷。

47岁时，他与第二任妻子离婚，三个孩子深受打击。

61岁时，他竞选参议员，但最后落败。

65岁时，政府修路拆了他刚刚红火的快餐馆，
他不得不低价出售了所有设备。

66岁时，为了维持生活，
他到各地的小餐馆推销自己掌握的炸鸡技术。

75岁时，他感到力不从心，因此转让了自己创立的品牌和专利。
新主人提议给他1万股，作为购买价的一部分，他拒绝了。
后来公司股票大涨，他因此失去了成为亿万富翁的机会。

83岁时，他又开了一家快餐店，
却因商标专利与人打起了官司。

88岁时，他终于大获成功，
全世界都知道了他的名字。

他，就是肯德基的创始人——哈伦德·山德士。
他说：
人们经常抱怨天气不好，实际上并不是天气不好。
只要自己有乐观自信的心情，天天都是好天气。

想你

2011-02-23T06:26:00.000-08:00

今天是你去out station的第三天了。真的很想你。
第一天你不再家，没有人等我放工，所以就呆在office久一点，不过一办也是因为很多东西要做啦，呵呵。
回到家里，自己一个人吃晚饭，真的很不习惯，也没什么吃得下。
痴痴的我还一直等你的来电。
终于等到了你放工的时候，但是你却不方便和我讲电话，当时的心理有点难受了。
放下电话后，一直逼自己睡觉，但是又睡不下，在想着，不知道你在做什么。在想着你一定是在那边很开心咯，都不记得我了咯。
想着想着就生气地睡着了。

第二天你一早就sms我了，但是又是不能call我，更加的生气了。
到了office, 就忍不住向你发了脾气 (用sms来发脾气,哈哈...)

你拼命的sms来安慰我...
看了你的解释，也觉得你其实也是很想念我，只是不方便call我而已。想想自己也是好象过分了点，毕竟你也是和朋友在工作。顿时觉得自己很无理取闹了，后悔了。

之后你就一直都有sms我，一定是怕我再发脾气咯,呵呵。

昨晚临睡前的那通电话真的很是sweet,虽然只是说句晚安，但是能听到你的声音就很开心了。嘻嘻。

你今晚半夜就要回来了，很开心，但是我明天又做工，就不能陪你了。

真想这个三月能快一点过完。

>,<

爱上一个爱发脾气的女人是你最大的幸福

2011-02-20T08:23:00.000-08:00

我是很会发脾气的女人，因为脾气自小就不是很好。

而且会时常跟男友吵架，也因为这样可能会影响到我们之间的感情的。

他说看到我对他发脾气时，他的心会很痛，会觉得我已经没那么爱他了。

可是我真的没有这样的想法，只是当时的性情真的很不好，而就那么的把脾气发在他的身上了。

但是我自己还是会反省自己是不是真的错了，如果换作我是他，无端端还要被自己的爱人骂，心理一定会难受极了。

所以，我决定改咯，为了不再让他不开心。我一定会改。

对不起宝贝，如果我之前说了什么伤你的话，请原谅我，噢k?嘻嘻。

在这想分享一篇短文，关于爱发脾气的女生。有时女生发脾气，也是因为她真的很在乎你，和很紧张你。

永远不会发脾气的女人就如同一杯白开水-解渴，却无味。

你迟到，她向你发脾气，是因为她紧张你，她怕你出了什么意外。

你抽烟，她向你发脾气，是因为她担心你的身体健康。

你喝酒，她向你发脾气，是因为她担心你酒醉后没有人照顾，感觉到孤单，更怕你在酒吧会出什么事，留下她一个人，她希望跟你长长久久，白头到老。

你身上被发现有别的女人香，她向你发脾气，是因为她在乎你，你是她的所有，她不想跟别人分亨你。

你臭袜子乱扔，她向你发脾气，是因为她关心你，她怕有一天你会被自己的臭袜子淹没，所以她要先把你训练好。

你忘记她的生日，她向你发脾气，是因为她对你有所期待，她并不会要求一个陌生人记住她的生日。

女人是最讲理的动物，她的脾气往往导因于各式各样的理由。

女人也是最不讲理的动物，她的理由经常令人无法理解。

女人可以为了一件小得不能再小的事，发一场大得不能再大的脾气。

因为女人对身边的男人有所要求，有所期望，所以常常会失望；失落。

因此，女人容易对男人发脾气。

身边有个会向你发脾气的女人，其实是一件多么幸福的事！

而身边有一个会让自己发脾气的男人，是对女人最大的折磨，也是莫大的幸福。

珍惜你身边那个爱生气的女人，因为会发脾气的女人最可爱了~

假如有一天，她不在为你生气。。。。

留下的只有漆黑的房间，慌乱的心跳，述说着心灵深处的痛楚。那寂寞的思念，那暗淡的惆怅，还有那幸福的幻觉，独自呓语！！！

2011 Bunny Year JASIN SIS "Sister" Gathering

2011-02-13T06:58:00.000-08:00

Today is our 2011 CNY Jasin SMKIS sister gang gathering.

Location: New Paris

Time: 7pm

Weather: Rainy Day :(

This year is our second year of CNY gathering, last year I am the organizer and this year as well.

No idea where to eat, so I just plan it at PJ, New Paris.

Thought today would be a good day to have a dinner. I called the restaurant intended to book a table for 9 ppl. Manatao, the person who picked up the phone said no need book lah, because is going to rain. So, I did not manage to book a table.

Suppose I should be the 1st person to reach there, but due to "traffic jam" (common excuse which we always use for late,hehe) and picked up a friend in Puchong, I reached there about 7.30pm.

That area very jam and hardly find parking. Once I reached there, one of my friend already reached. She already booked a table from the uncle waiter.

There people mountain people sea, no empty table even the restaurant got 3 levels. So we have to wait till got place.

But fortunately, we did manage to get a table just within 15 minutes.

Once sit down, the order sayur uncle approached us on the CNY special menu, with the cheapest set from RM298. The uncle explain that, this would be faster than normal order. So we just take it without think twice.

The 1st meal sure is "Yu Shang" loh....The portion is big, and taste okay lah...

After that, is the "Leng Pan" dish. Also so so only, then the next1 we got big fish and prawns lah...

The biggest portion is the mango chicken and there are 2 dishes of vegetable which we really unable to finish it. These 3 dishes really sucks. Please do not take their CNY meal set, better order the alar carte loh...

Then the last thing in the menu is the special and nice set of desert, and we are expecting it to be so "special"...

Manatao, when the desert arrived, is the watermelon + can longan...we are all bombed....haha...

Although the food was not that nice, but we still had a good time there, chit chatting and taking photos here and there...haha...

Really long time no gather liao, hope we can do it more frequently...

The beauty of Melaka

2011-01-22T04:23:00.000-08:00

Nadeje Mille Crepe @ Melaka

2011-01-22T03:33:00.000-08:00

Mille Crepe lover may visit this Nadeje cake shop located at Melaka Tengah Town.

There are few flavor of mille crepe, from original, green tea, cheese to coffee. RM8.50 per piece.

Location 1:
At Plaza Mahkota.

G-23 & 25, Jln PM4,
Plaza Mahkota,
75000 Melaka.

Location2:

Top floor of Dataran Pahlawan Melaka.

Pork+ Intestine Satey @ Melaka

2011-01-22T03:15:00.000-08:00

Are you fans of SATEY?

There are all type of satey in Malaysia, the common one from chicken, beef, mutton, rabbit, deer, fish and the non halal one --> Pork.

If you're Muslim, I am sorry that this post is nothing interest to you...

But for those pork lover, you can visit this pork satey shop located at Kota Laksaman, Melaka.

This shop not only selling pork satey, they are selling the pork intestine satey as well.

Their satey kuah are special from others which we eat at any where...is peanut sauce+ the pineapple.

So you can taste the kuah is sour+ spicy.

Let's go try this at:
Sun May Hiong Satay House
50/50A, Jalan Kota Laksamana 1/1, Taman Kota Laksamana, 75200, Melaka
06-2817281
10a.m.-7p.m. (Mon-Sun)

Cameron Highlands

2011-01-22T02:30:00.000-08:00

Kellie's Castle

2011-01-22T02:04:00.000-08:00

Kellie's Castle (sometimes also called Kellie's Folly) is located near Batu Gajah, and is about 20 minutes' drive from Ipoh, Perak, Malaysia. The unfinished, ruined mansion, was built by a Scottish planter named William Kellie Smith. According to differing accounts, it was either a gift for his wife or a home for his son.

我是女王

2010-09-14T08:15:00.000-07:00

最近在看着一本书叫“我是女王2”。是个朋友介绍我看的，她说单身的我适合看这本书。

单是听这本书的名字，你应该会认为这本书大多都是讲述一些如何征服男人之类的，大女人的性格吧？

刚刚开始开了几章，觉得作者的文笔都很顺畅的，不会太作做，也蛮好读的。

第二就是作者所说的都是很适合我们现代社会女性所面对的感情问题，思想模式和城市单身女性的写照。

我很认同作者的想法，觉得我的思想模式和她还蛮贴切的。

例如作者又提到的就是：现代的女生，为什么都要打扮得这么美？拿名贵的手提袋，身上的衣服不是channel就是gucci.为了减肥，不吃晚餐，还用了几千块上美容院。甚至有些还去整容。

总之你读了后会觉得作者是个很明朗，坚强与独立的女孩。

不过读完了整本书之后，觉得作者难免对男生有很多的偏见，想法也有点极端。

往往都是写道那些男生都不是好人似的。

可能她所写的一切，全都是她所遇到的人与事物，有点limited 啦。

我觉得我不会去买第一本书了。

一個出軌男人與佛的對話

2010-09-14T08:01:00.001-07:00

一個出軌男人與佛的對話，說的很有道理……
深夜，寺裏一人一佛，佛坐人站。
人：聖明的佛，我是一個已婚之人，我現在狂熱地愛上了另一個女人，我真的不知道該怎么辦。
佛：你能確寫你現在愛上的這個女人就是你生命裏唯一的最後一個女人嗎？
人：是的。
佛：你離婚，然後娶她。
人：可是我現在的愛人溫柔，善良，賢惠，我這樣做是否有一點殘忍，有一點不道德。
佛：在婚姻中沒有愛才是殘忍和不道德的，你現在愛上了別人已不愛她了，你這樣做是正確的。
人：可是我愛人很愛我，真的很愛我。
佛：那她就是幸福的。
人：我要與她離婚後另娶她人，她應該是很痛苦的又怎么會是幸福的呢？
佛：在婚姻裏她還擁有她對你的愛，而你在婚姻中已失去對她的愛，因爲你愛上了別人，正謂擁有的就是幸福的，失去的才是痛苦的，所以痛苦的人是你。
人：可是我要和她離婚後另娶她人，應該是她失去了我，她應該才是痛苦的。
佛：你錯了，你只是她婚姻中真愛的一個具體，當你這個具體不存在的時候，她的真愛會延續到另一個具體，因爲她在婚姻中的真愛從沒有失去過。所以她才是幸福的而你才是痛苦的。
人：她說過今生只愛我一個，她不會愛上別人的。
佛：這樣的話你也說過嗎？
人：我。我。。我。。。
佛：你現在看你面前香爐裏的三根蠟燭，那根最亮。
人：我真的不知道，好象都是一樣的亮。
佛：這三根蠟燭就好比是三個女人，其中一根就是你現在所愛的那個女人，蕓蕓衆生，女人何止千百萬萬，你連這三根蠟燭那根最亮都不知道，都不能把你現在愛的人找出來，你爲什麽又能確定你現在愛的這個女人就是你生命裏唯一的最後一個女人呢？
人：我。我。。我。。。
佛：你現在拿一根蠟燭放在你的眼前，用心看看那根最亮
人：當然是眼前的這根最亮。
佛：你現在把它放回原處，再看看那根最亮
人：我真的還是看不出那根最亮。
佛：其實你剛拿的那根蠟燭就是好比是你現在愛的那個最後的女人，所謂愛由心生，當你感覺你愛她時，你用心去看就覺的它最亮，當你把它放回原處，你卻找不到最亮的一點感覺，你這種所謂的最後的唯一的愛只是鏡花水月，到頭來終究是一場空。
人：哦，我懂了，你並不是要我與我的愛人離婚，你是在點化我，
佛：看破不說破，你去吧
人：我現在真的知道我愛的是誰了，她就是我現在的愛人。
佛：阿彌陀佛，阿彌陀佛
你我曾經深愛過的某人，無非也就是蕓蕓衆生中的一個，只是愛由心生，自以爲他/她會是今生最愛，當你感覺你愛她，你用心去愛就覺的他/她最珍貴，當萬物歸原，生命仍然繼續，他/她無非也就是我們生命中的一個過客。
我們根本無法確定哪一個才是今生最愛，如果不懂得去珍惜，你身邊這個愛你的/你愛的人，在某一天，也會成爲你身邊的過客。
找一個你愛的人不容易，找一個愛你的人也不容易。如果無法確定哪一個才是你最愛的人，何不在自己成爲別人的愛人的時候珍惜這份感情？愛由心生，你告訴自己是愛他/她的，自然就可以愛上他/她。
如果你愛的人不愛你，也請記得：愛由心生。是你太過於把目光集中在他/她身上了，試著放開視線焦點，你會發現光亮的蠟燭到處都有。
愛與不愛，無非也就是在一念之間。
過去的事情過去的愛情，就讓它過去吧，那只是我們生命的一部分，只是茫茫大海中的一滴水珠，只是漫漫蒼弩中的一粒微塵。沒有那些過去，也不會造就現在的你我。
珍惜當前，永遠勝於三心兩意。個出軌男人與佛的對話，說的很有道理…… 深夜，寺裏一人一佛，佛坐人站。人：聖明的佛，我是一個已婚之人，我現在狂熱地愛上了另一個女人，我真的不知道該怎么辦。佛：你能確寫你現在愛上的這個女人就是你生命裏唯一的最後一個女人嗎？人：是的。佛：你離婚，然後娶她。人：可是我現在的愛人溫柔，善良，賢惠，我這樣做是否有一點殘忍，有一點不道德。佛：在婚姻中沒有愛才是殘忍和不道德的，你現在愛上了別人已不愛她了，你這樣做是正確的。人：可是我愛人很愛我，真的很愛我。佛：那她就是幸福的。人：我要與她離婚後另娶她人，她應該是很痛苦的又怎么會是幸福的呢？佛：在婚姻裏她還擁有她對你的愛，而你在婚姻中已失去對她的愛，因爲你愛上了別人，正謂擁有的就是幸福的，失去的才是痛苦的，所以痛苦的人是你。人：可是我要和她離婚後另娶她人，應該是她失去了我，她應該才是痛苦的。佛：你錯了，你只是她婚姻中真愛的一個具體，當你這個具體不存在的時候，她的真愛會延續到另一個具體，因爲她在婚姻中的真愛從沒有失去過。所以她才是幸福的而你才是痛苦的。人：她說過今生只愛我一個，她不會愛上別人的。佛：這樣的話你也說過嗎？人：我。我。。我。。。佛：你現在看你面前香爐裏的三根蠟燭，那根最亮。人：我真的不知道，好象都是一樣的亮。佛：這三根蠟燭就好比是三個女人，其中一根就是你現在所愛的那個女人，蕓蕓衆生，女人何止千百萬萬，你連這三根蠟燭那根最亮都不知道，都不能把你現在愛的人找出來，你爲什麽又能確定你現在愛的這個女人就是你生命裏唯一的最後一個女人呢？人：我。我。。我。。。佛：你現在拿一根蠟燭放在你的眼前，用心看看那根最亮人：當然是眼前的這根最亮。佛：你現在把它放回原處，再看看那根最亮人：我真的還是看不出那根最亮。佛：其實你剛拿的那根蠟燭就是好比是你現在愛的那個最後的女人，所謂愛由心生，當你感覺你愛她時，你用心去看就覺的它最亮，當你把它放回原處，你卻找不到最亮的一點感覺，你這種所謂的最後的唯一的愛只是鏡花水月，到頭來終究是一場空。人：哦，我懂了，你並不是要我與我的愛人離婚，你是在點化我，佛：看破不說破，你去吧人：我現在真的知道我愛的是誰了，她就是我現在的愛人。佛：阿彌陀佛，阿彌陀佛你我曾經深愛過的某人，無非也就是蕓蕓衆生中的一個，只是愛由心生，自以爲他/她會是今生最愛，當你感覺你愛她，你用心去愛就覺的他/她最珍貴，當萬物歸原，生命仍然繼續，他/她無非也就是我們生命中的一個過客。我們根本無法確定哪一個才是今生最愛，如果不懂得去珍惜，你身邊這個愛你的/你愛的人，在某一天，也會成爲你身邊的過客。找一個你愛的人不容易，找一個愛你的人也不容易。如果無法確定哪一個才是你最愛的人，何不在自己成爲別人的愛人的時候珍惜這份感情？愛由心生，你告訴自己是愛他/她的，自然就可以愛上他/她。如果你愛的人不愛你，也請記得：愛由心生。是你太過於把目光集中在他/她身上了，試著放開視線焦點，你會發現光亮的蠟燭到處都有。愛與不愛，無非也就是在一念之間。過去的事情過去的愛情，就讓它過去吧，那只是我們生命的一部分，只是茫茫大海中的一滴水珠，只是漫漫蒼弩中的一粒微塵。沒有那些過去，也不會造就現在的你我。珍惜當前，永遠勝於三心兩意。

Life note

2010-09-02T08:35:00.000-07:00

Every1 got their own problem..
and I cant even help them...
when I hear their story,
my heart also feel pain for them..
pain because I can't do anything...
Just can give some advice....some positive sharing..hope they can feel it and stand up again...

Jia you for those who are struggling in life..
Dont give up if you're thinking to do that..
Dare to dream and dare to chase you dream...
You will get it one day...
if not get it also almost reach there lah...haha

Life although is hard, but we must find a way to make it more happier...

单身的原因

2010-09-01T05:41:00.000-07:00

越长大，越难和另一个人在一起。
不是因为条件。还是有人喜欢你，你也活得比以前更好，不再那么任性，更像在投资的艺术品。
也不是因为对爱情死心。在KTV突然听到的某首歌，会让你不自禁模糊了视线。一些场景，一些气息，始终无法忘怀。朋友帮你介绍时，你也会满心期待。
却依然单身。闭上眼睛吹蜡烛的时候，总是希望身边有另一个人一起许愿。一些客气的场合，有人来搭讪，话题围绕着你单身的原因。而他们最后给出的结论是，你太挑了。你在心里面笑，所以其他人都不挑？
其实你自己知道，为什么不能好好谈一场恋爱。就是因为，你太清楚自己是怎样的一块料，所以不会再轻而易举把自己交出去。就像是，有一天你发现跌倒以后的伤口，会开始留下疤痕，于是走路时不敢再大步跨出去。
因为，你惯性太强、记性太好。认识一个人很简单，忘记一个人很困难。你曾经心满意足的闭上眼睛，让另一个人带你去任何地方，最后却差点回不来。所以不能再失去方向感。
于是你就变得胆小了。以前喜欢男生有幽默感，现在更在乎安全感。以前打电话找不到人就拼命的打，现在发了短信没回应，即使心中有波动也可以忍住。以前最有兴趣的话题是对方的过去，现在会先关心这份感情有没有未来。
所以，空暇的时候，你宁愿和朋友在烈日下逛街，也不愿让对方觉得自己很在乎什么。你安慰自己，有朋友就够了，一个人生活也很好。你忘记了当另一个人女朋友的感觉，当那个人出现时，你开始慌张、害怕。
只是，你并不是一定要单身，就像你也没计划过一定用哪只手写字。不过是，既然如此了那就这样吧。你想要有人一起旅行，一起看电影。你想和那个人说自己准备好了，只是没有勇气，请对方多一点耐心。你想说不再需要太多惊喜，在心里等的是一份相守以望的感情，抬起头来相视而笑，安心的生活，如此而已。
此文章拷貝自校內。

爱就对了

2010-08-03T09:48:00.000-07:00

歌曲：爱就对了
歌手：she

总是要流一些滚烫热泪
才能换来对爱的体会
你看时间没有毁灭
心也没有碎
其他的就交时间解决
你当然可以重新再爱
受过伤的感动怎样爱与被爱
多余
反正你有他的回忆
有空白回忆
离开你的只有他但是爱还在
听我说
爱是对的
错的是我们还没学会爱
就急着爱人
而爱错人
可是
爱就对了
遇到下一个
爱上就爱了
痛苦或快乐都是我的

┎橙色记忆qq:896533895

我当然经历过你现在的感受
我想那是人必经的折磨
也许每个人都该是某个人成长的助手
受一点苦痛帮助她成熟
听我说
爱是对的
错的是我们还没学会爱
就急着爱人
而爱错人
可是
爱就对了
遇到下一个
爱上就爱了
痛苦或快乐都是我的

别探听他的线索
别等待他会回头
爱不喜欢看人软弱
别继续把心封锁
别躲在伤心里头
爱万一来了别错过
爱是对的
错的是我们还没学会爱
就急着爱人
而爱错人
可是
爱就对了
遇到下一个
爱上就爱了
痛苦或快乐都是我的
听我说
爱是对的
错的是别人自以为的爱
才会有爱人又伤害爱人
可是
爱就对了
爱了就值得
爱就能懂得
健身当快乐
爱就对了
听我说
爱是对的
错的是别人自以为的爱
才会有爱人又伤害爱人
可是
爱就对了
爱了就值得
爱就能懂得
健身当快乐
爱就对了

****喜欢这首歌******

过期的承诺

2010-06-13T17:30:00.000-07:00

谁还记得是谁先说永远的爱我？
以前的一句话是我们以后的伤口.
过了太久没人记得当初那些温柔
我和你手牵手,说要一起走到最后.

是你忘了那些承诺吗？对我说有多爱我，最爱的是我，最放不下的是我。
这些话都只是拿出来说说而已的吗？
我知道我们虽然不再有什么关系，我也不该再把这些过期的承诺放在心上。
以为自己真的可以把你放下，但是却发现原来自己还有那么一点点的心痛。
心痛是因为你这么快就可以开始另一段感情，还是我还爱着你？
我自己也搞不清楚。

或许我们的感情根本就没有那么的深刻，那么的刻骨铭心。
希望你能在这一段新的恋情里找到你要的东西。
希望你会幸福。

2010-03-21T02:44:00.000-07:00

今天又是一个人在咖啡馆吃午餐。

今天的cafe特别满桌，特别多人，特别热闹。

唯独我这一桌，特别的安静。

看看自己的四周，原来也有一些像我一样的单身女郎自己独自的坐在一角。

看看她们，再看看自己。她们是不是也没有人陪她们吃饭？

她们是不是也觉得孤单？还是她们很享受一个人的时间？

我还记得一个朋友对我说，如果她一个人时，打死她都不会一个人出去吃饭。她宁愿在家煮maggie面来吃。

起初的我也和她一样这样想，但是我真的低档不住外面那些美味食物的诱惑了。

我可不想这一辈子都是在吃maggie面而已。

不知道到40岁时，我还会不会自己一个人吃？

想象一下一个40岁的aunty，自己一个人在吃bak kut teh,自己一个人在吃steamboat,自己一个人去吃satey,自己一个人庆祝生日，自己一个人在唱k.哈哈，是不是很滑稽呢？

大日子 woohoo~!

2010-03-05T07:12:00.000-08:00

昨天我才刚看这片子。

这是大马华人本地创作贺岁电影，已经下画很久了。

只是我一直找到机会去看。我们身为华人的就应该支持本地电影。
我朋友还买了正版的DVD,呵呵。

电影的主题是关于一个华人的传统文化叫“五虎”

。

就像舞狮类似的东西，但这是老虎。
电影的拍摄地点就是关丹，而且还把Teluk Cempedak 拍得很美。

很喜欢这部电影，因为看着的时候，我一直想到在家里的老妈子。

里面的那些对白，句句深入我心。

尤其是那句：“你们这些KL人就是这样的。”

哈哈，说得很对，KL的人就是这样的现实的。

我最喜欢就是vivian的角色了。

看到她时，我想到了我妈妈，因为她也是这么的凶的。

小时候就是这样的大声骂我们，这样的拿着藤条来追打我们。

真的很感动。看得哭了。

如果你还没看，记得一定要看噢 ~！

p.s:我喜欢那个啊贤的对白：“Tapi hoh....”..

哈哈，够经典~！

我爱上了花花之物

2010-02-27T22:50:00.000-08:00

最近买了很多花花的东西。
例如包包啦，发夹，耳环还有发圈。
erm...我还想买花花的裙子。
不知道为什么啦，就是觉得这些花花的东西很可爱。
我几时变得这么女性化了啊？呵呵。

1）发圈

2）发夹

3）包包

4）耳环

是不是很美呢？嘻嘻！

Garden Cafe

2010-02-20T06:16:00.000-08:00

Today went Garden cafe with Ah Ling.
This is the 1st time went there, although it's open since years ago..LOL
Their shop decoration is very nice and comfortable.
But I can said is they copied Full House concept.
They have more variety of foods than FULL House. From western foods to local foods are served here.
The price range is around RM12 to RM25.
Food taste moderate only.
Here are some pictures which I taken this afternoon.
Enjoy~!

我终于去Biz Cafe了

2010-02-20T05:57:00.000-08:00

那天和朋友去Biz Cafe dinner.
问了几个人才能找到那家Biz Cafe.
它的店的位子很偏僻，不是向着大街的，招牌又够小的，根本就没有什么人会注意到那家店。
我们7.30pm到那里时，半个顾客都没有。
我们还蛮好奇的，因为那时是晚餐时间，照理说因该会有很多人来吃饭的。
心想这件点是不是被人家包了下来了，呵呵。
我们点了各自的食物，吃完了，都还是不见其它的顾客来观光的。
整间店就只有我们这一座。
真怀疑这件店面是怎么顶的。
食物的价格是属于中等啦，不会太贵，也不会很便宜。
食物的水准也不错啦，大家不妨可以去试试吃啦！呵呵！
它们的dessert看起来还蛮不错的，但是我没有试啦！
如果你试了，就告诉我啦！呵呵~

爱一个人时，你会想要那个人死吗？

2010-02-20T05:45:00.000-08:00

爱一个人时，你会想要那个人死吗？
这样的话，还叫作爱吗？
我曾经很讨厌我的第一个男朋友到想要他死掉去算了。
那时我心里很恨他，恨他这样来对待我。
当时的我很想跟他说分手，但是我知道我自己做不到，所以我心想，只要他死掉的话，那么我就可以得到解脱。
我这样子的想法是可以理解的吗？
当然我现在没有跟他在一起并不是因为他已经死掉了，而是我终于跟他分手了。
现在，我的这任男友，他可以这样来诅咒我死，是不是他现在也有我当时的心情？
还是他根本就不喜欢我了。
如果我死了，唯一开心的人是他吧。

和谐

2010-02-05T07:44:00.000-08:00

“和谐”短片将在13-02-2010 (除夕夜)，8pm首映。播映频道:台湾人间卫视, Astro/AEC, NTV7, 8TV与TV。大家记得受看哦！ "He Xie" animation will be premiered on 13 Feb 2009, 8pm. Channels: Taiwan LTV, Astro/AEC, NTV7, 8TV与TV2. Don't miss it!

祝大家新年快乐~！！

美国老师讲灰姑娘的故事

2010-02-05T07:34:00.000-08:00

~~found from the web, just sharing~~

上课铃响了，孩子们跑进教室，这节课老师要讲的是《灰姑娘》的故事。
老师先请一个孩子上台给同学讲一讲这个故事。
孩子很快讲完了，老师对他表示了感谢，然后开始向全班提问。

老师：你们喜欢故事里面的哪一个？不喜欢哪一个？为什么？

学生：喜欢辛黛瑞拉（灰姑娘），还有王子，不喜欢她的后妈和后妈带来的姐姐。辛黛瑞拉善良、可爱、漂亮。后妈和姐姐对辛黛瑞拉不好。

老师：如果在午夜 12点的时候，辛黛瑞拉没有来得及跳上她的番瓜马车，你们想一想，可能会出现什么情况？

学生：辛黛瑞拉会变成原来脏脏的样子，穿著破旧的衣服。哎呀，那就惨啦。

老师：所以，你们一定要做一个守时的人，不然就可能给自己带来麻烦。另外，你们看，你们每个人平时都打扮得漂漂亮亮的，千万不要突然邋里邋遢地出现在别人面前，不然你们的朋友要吓着了。女孩子们，你们更要注意，将来你们长大和男孩子约会，要是你不注意，被你的男朋友看到你很难看的样子，他们可能就吓昏了（老师做昏倒状）好，下一个问题，如果你是辛黛瑞拉的后妈，你会不会阻止辛黛瑞拉去参加王子的舞会？你们一定要诚实哟！

学生：（过了一会儿，有孩子举手回答）是的，如果我辛黛瑞拉的后妈，我也会阻止她去参加王子的舞会。

老师：为什么？

学生：因为，因为我爱自己的女儿，我希望自己的女儿当上王后。

老师：是的，所以，我们看到的后妈好象都是不好的人，她们只是对别人不够好，可是她们对自己的孩子却很好，你们明白了吗？她们不是坏人，只是她们还不能够像爱自己的孩子一样去爱其它的孩子。

老师：孩子们，下一个问题，辛黛瑞拉的后妈不让她去参加王子的舞会，甚至把门锁起来，她为什么能够去，而且成为舞会上最美丽的姑娘呢？

学生：因为有仙女帮助她，给她漂亮的衣服，还把番瓜变成马车，把狗和老鼠变成仆人。

老师：对，你们说得很好！想一想，如果辛黛瑞拉没有得到仙女的帮助，她是不可能去参加舞会的，是不是？

学生：是的！

老师：如果狗、老鼠都不愿意帮助她，她可能在最后的时刻成功地跑回家吗？

学生：不会，那样她就可以成功地吓到王子了。（全班再次大笑）

老师：虽然辛黛瑞拉有仙女帮助她，但是，光有仙女的帮助还不够。所以，孩子们，无论走到哪里，我们都是需要朋友的。我们的朋友不一定是仙女，但是，我们需要他们，我也希望你们有很多很多的朋友。下面，请你们想一想，如果辛黛瑞拉因为后妈不愿意她参加舞会就放弃了机会，她可能成为王子的新娘吗？

学生：不会！那样的话，她就不会到舞会上，不会被王子遇到，认识和爱上她了。

老师：对极了！如果辛黛瑞拉不想参加舞会，就是她的后妈没有阻止，甚至支持她去，也是没有用的，是谁决定她要去参加王子的舞会？

学生：她自己。

老师：所以，孩子们，就是辛黛瑞拉没有妈妈爱她，她的后妈不爱她，这也不能够让她不爱自己。就是因为她爱自己，她才可能去寻找自己希望得到的东西。如果你们当中有人觉得没有人爱，或者像辛黛瑞拉一样有一个不爱她的后妈，你们要怎么样？

学生：要爱自己！

老师：对，没有一个人可以阻止你爱自己，如果你觉得别人不够爱你，你要加倍地爱自己；如果别人没有给你机会，你应该加倍地给自己机会；如果你们真的爱自己，就会为自己找到自己需要的东西，没有人可以阻止辛黛瑞拉参加王子的舞会，没有人可以阻止辛黛瑞拉当上王后，除了她自己。对不对？

学生：是的！！！

老师：最后一个问题，这个故事有什么不合理的地方？

学生：（过了好一会）午夜 12点以后所有的东西都要变回原样，可是，辛黛瑞拉的水晶鞋没有变回去。

老师：天哪，你们太棒了！你们看，就是伟大的作家也有出错的时候，所以，出错不是什么可怕的事情。我担保，如果你们当中谁将来要当作家，一定比这个作家更棒！你们相信吗？

孩子们欢呼雀跃。

此为美国一所普通小学的一堂阅读课。我们是几岁的时候才想到这些层面？

——小学老师教的，终身受用——

投資一個好女人

2010-02-05T06:50:00.000-08:00

其實投資女人是最划算的，

尤其是投資一個好女人，

有這樣經歷的男人一定會同意我的看法。

女人是奇妙的生物，

當你真心打動她之後，

她就會不斷地為你付出，

直到終老一生。

想一想，

只是花一點時間陪她去吃飯、看場電影，

送一些可愛的小禮物，

說些能打動她的話，

告訴她將會帶給她如何一個美好的人生，

幫她打蟑螂，

偶爾搬搬粗重的東西。。。這零零總總加起來，

了不起是兩年、三年的時間 (比較高竿的一年以內)。

換來的是什麼呢？

我的下半輩子裏，

有一個天天為我守候的女人；

在我回家時一張迎著我幸福的笑臉

(吵架的時候可能沒有，但畢竟吵架的日子少多了。。。)，

熱騰騰的飯，

或是兩人一起去吃飯也不錯；

還會為我生孩子

(雖然我是男的，也明白生孩子有多痛，從以前便秘那刻領略得到。。。)，

養孩子，處理家事 (或許這是最煩的，不是嗎？)；

我失意時，陪我談心、給予鼓勵；

我高興時，她比我更高興；

我得意時，她與我分享喜悅和成就；

天天夜裏的溫存，

多少次真心的交會。

以上都是三十年以上。

而我們男人在這三十年中，

只是做一件非常簡單的事 --- 全情投入，一心一意地去愛她。。。

當你發現這個女人開始為你付出時，

你就要了解你的幸福日子已經開始了，

當然，你也必須開始為她的一生負責，

儘力去做到你給她的夢。。。

According To You

2010-02-05T06:29:00.000-08:00

Kinda like this song. The lyric is so meaningful.
Guy please appreciate what you have, open your eye widely and see the things around you clearly.
Not just focus on ppl weaknesses. Why not emphasize on the ppl strength? Look at what ppl has done and sacrifice for you.

Lyrics:
According to you
I'm stupid,
I'm useless,
I can't do anything right.
According to you
I'm difficult,
hard to please,
forever changing my mind.
I'm a mess in a dress,
can't show up on time,
even if it would save my life.
According to you. According to you.

But according to him
I'm beautiful,
incredible,
he can't get me out of his head.
According to him
I'm funny,
irresistible,
everything he ever wanted.
Everything is opposite,
I don't feel like stopping it,
so baby tell me what I got to lose.
He's into me for everything I'm not,
according to you.

According to you
I'm boring,
I'm moody,
you can't take me any place.
According to you
I suck at telling jokes cause I always give it away.
I'm the girl with the worst attention span;
you're the boy who puts up with that.
According to you. According to you.

But according to him
I'm beautiful,
incredible,
he can't get me out of his head.
According to him
I'm funny,
irresistible,
everything he ever wanted.
Everything is opposite,
I don't feel like stopping it,
so baby tell me what I got to lose.
He's into me for everything I'm not,
according to you.

I need to feel appreciated,
like I'm not hated. oh... no...
Why can't you see me through his eyes?
It's too bad you're making me decide.

According to me
you're stupid,
you're useless,
you can't do anything right.
But according to him
I'm beautiful,
incredible,
he can't get me out of his head.
According to him
I'm funny,
irresistible,
everything he ever wanted.
Everything is opposite,
I don't feel like stopping it,
baby tell me what I got to lose.
He's into me for everything I'm not,
according to you. (you, you)
According to you. (you, you)

According to you
I'm stupid,
I'm useless,
I can't do anything right.

黄明志新年歌

2010-02-05T05:40:00.000-08:00

最近我国之光黄明志有创作了一首关于新年的歌曲。
很有意思的哦，请观看如下片曲：

谢谢收看！

春分立蛋

2010-02-03T21:03:00.000-08:00

在古老的传说中，每年春分这天可以很容易把鸡蛋立起来。因为，春分那天太阳直射在赤道上，南北半球昼夜时间相同。据说，春分这天，蛋站立的稳定性最好。据史料记载，春分立蛋的传统起源于4000年前的中国，以庆祝春天的来临。春分这一天是时间的平衡，是白天和夜晚的平衡，这就是全世界人们喜欢立蛋的原因。据说1985年春分时，美国阿拉斯加大学艺术系教授格雷和他的学生在一间房屋里，一共立起来204个鸡蛋。

其实立蛋与春分并不相干，鸡蛋能不能立起来取决于地球引力和鸡蛋本身的条件。春分对地球引力产生的影响是微不足道的，而立鸡蛋，蛋黄成分起了很大的作用，蛋黄的下沉会降低蛋的重心，加上蛋壳本身凹凸不平，只要找到3个突出点，平衡后蛋就能够立起来了。

专家表示，其实，鸡蛋可以在一年中的任何一天竖立起来。而且市民可以在家中尝试：取一只新鲜的鸡蛋，使其大头朝下，轻轻放在桌面上，仔细地寻找平衡点，直到不倒才松手。而且立稳的鸡蛋在没有外界干扰的情况下，可以保持十几天不倒。

p.s: 放在冰厨的蛋就不行咯～

Woman Revolution (Asian Version)

2010-02-03T19:37:00.000-08:00

Woman before 50's: My grate grand mother generation

They are shy, less literate, most of them are housewife, and no right to speak in the public,like to wear cheong sam and tie up the hair.

Woman 60's : My grand mother generation

Still shy and conservative

Woman during 70's: My mother generation

Woman start to involve more in society and with higer education. Dunno why they like to pose like that (with 2 hands holding their face--> Maybe look slimer,hehe)

My mother have alot this kinda pictures..haha

Woman at 80's: My sister generation

Pic Description: They like to comb their fornt hair into curry puff shape,haha. I still remember my sister everyday wake up early in the morning to do her hair before go to school..haha

Woman start to influence by the western culture. More open minded, educated, and their role become more important in society.

Woman 90's: My generation

We are still "Lut Lut" like that. All of us have the chance to further study and no more gender discrimination. Man and woman are equal.

Girl nowadays: Strawberry generation

....

Not much comments, as I don't really mix with them, so I did not really understand them (maybe this is call generation gap,haha).

Why they call strawberry generation? Because they are over protective, soft and fragile like strawberry.

Just know that they like to act cute and post alot cute cute photos to the social network. (And I really cannot accept how the way they wear their clothes and the hair style,haha..)

p.s: All the photos above is just for reference only, it does not mean to criticize any of them.

Thanks.

My Life Is Not Crazy Enough

2010-02-03T07:25:00.000-08:00

Why I started this topic?

Suddenly this feeling came into me when I am surfing internet in FB, looking others ppl life photos...

When I'm looking at their photos, I can feel the hapiness around them...

They are so free, happy and crazy...

Then I think back, I'm like never done anything crazy in my life before...

All this while my life is just like a __________________ straight line, no climax and fluctuation...

Because I'm not crazy enough?
I can't really do something which I desire to do it in my heart. Like scold some1 which I wanted to scold long time ago, do something out of ppl surprise...

And I'm feeling like myself is an internet browser freak, who everyday log in to social network, see others ppl profile, photos, update status, comment on others ppl, play some stupid games...

OMG, my time is just passed like that when ever I'm not working in the office.

I really sick of my life...

When only I wanna start to become crazy? When I'm 80 years old?

Then I will become a 80 years old crazy women who want to play bungee jumping, white water rafting, ride ATV, cycling, play kites and etc...

Haha, I can't imagine that, sure very funny...

I want to Be A Full Time House Wife

2010-02-02T18:51:00.000-08:00

When we are young, teacher in school like to ask:

Teacher: What's your ambitious?

Me: Erm...Maybe I wanna become teacher. Or else lawyer also not bad...Erm...doctor also ok lah...

This is most of our common answer when we're young.

But unfortunately, not many of us become 1 of the dream job.

I used to be very ambitious too. My prior dream job is to become a fashion designer. But due to so money and family issue, the dream has never been come true. At the end, I am doing as a banker in one of the bank. LOL

I rest at home almost for 1 months due to my current health condition. Although some of the days were really suffer from the pain of the illness. But the rest of it, I'm enjoying to become a full time housewife. LOL.

Wake up early in the morning, greet my dear before he go out to work. After that, I will start my day with cleaning up the whole house.

After taking breakfast and cleaning up myself, I will rest for a while before I go out.

I will go to the mini market or store to buy some groceries. After that, maybe do some shopping activities.

Come back home, I will cook something for the dinner or cook some tong shui. (Can't really cook a full dishes as our house does not have a complete kitchen,LOL)

Then while waiting my dear to come back home, I will online or watch some movies.

I have to think about what to cook for tomorrow, maybe prepare some breakfast and etc.

And my day passes like this.

I am kinda love this kinda life. No need to think so much, no need to bother about work, no need to think about money (I really wish this,haha).

If my hubby really can earn so much money and I think I will quit form my job. Maybe I will do some small business so that I am not really 100% depend on my hubby.

If we have a child, I think my time will be more occupy. I have to send the kid to school, pick them up after school, send them to tuition, or teach them at home. haha...

What a wonderful housewife life...

在AmBank的最后一天

2010-01-29T01:19:00.000-08:00

今天是我最后一天在ＡｍＢａｎｋ了。
冲冲茫茫的把辞职信交给了老板，给了个充分的理由。
我就这样２４小时离开了那里。
胡乱写了最后一封邮件，寄给所有认识我的工作伙伴，通知他们，我终于离去了。
谢谢你们的祝福！
虽然为自己感到开心，
但是我也很舍不得ＡｍＢａｎｋ的同事，毕竟这是我毕业后的第一份工作。
我在那里学了很多的东西，跌跌撞撞的，才有了今天的我。
也很谢谢ＡｍＢａｎｋ啦，呵呵！

第三次的进院

2010-01-28T16:37:00.000-08:00

唉，不知道是医院舍不得我，还是我想念医院。
那天，星期二晚上，我又进院了，伤口又开始流血。
在里面呆了两天。在那里时，我想自由想的疯了。
现在医院好像变成我的另一个家了，呵呵！
不能再进第四次了~！
神啊~！你一定要保佑我啊~！

Is it untill one day when I'm gone only you will feel touch?

2010-01-28T06:22:00.000-08:00

If someday when you call me, my voice mail tell you that I have been off my service, will you be sad?

If someday your handphone stop ringing anymore,will you wait for my call?

If someday your inbox did not get any message asking you how are you today? Do you eat today? Do you take care of yourself? Will you expect for the message to come?

If someday there is no1 staying beside the pc waiting for you to online, waiting for the time to give you a call? Will you feel disappointed?

If the that day arrive, I hope you will have a little bit of sadness, a little bit of disappointment, a little bit of missing me, a little bit of memories about me, just a little bit of it, it will be enough.

If someday, you log in to FB, my primary photo has become grey colour forever, don't blame me that I did not keep my promises, that's because I feel tired and I am really hurt.

If someday I am no more in your life, please remember what I have been done for you and my kindness. You must remember, although we are apart from each other, but we're still staying under the same blue skies.

When someday I have been forget from your memories, please don't forget the every second which we spend togather, don't forget what I like and dislike.

And me, no matter what, I will not forget any part of memories which is about you, what's you use to do and what's hatred you.

The word of "fair" is never can apply in Love, I will not calculate all these, the time we being togather is the most happiest memories in my life.

I want you to remember what you have promised me. If one day when you're unhappy, I will not able to console you anymore.

I will not able to be sad with you when you're in miserable, I will not be able togather with you when you're heart broken.

As I am really lossing hope, tired and heart broken.

That's because there're many many times, I was pretending, pretend not to bother so much. But it's I am care about you? And you? Do you care everything about me?

But I will blame myself and I will hate myself, because I did not keep my words. I know, it's all because of me, I am not good enough and I shoud not appear in your life.

I should just be some one who love you, wait you and miss you without letting you to know. But I already showed it all to you. You knew it and understand it, but do you feel touch？

Is it untill one day when I'm gone only you will feel touch?

无题

2010-01-25T08:47:00.000-08:00

明知道自己心里已经有了个答案。
但是这一步却是多么多么的难走。
我因该向现实低头，还是勇敢的为自己闯出一条路？
我这样的犹豫下去，
会不会到了80岁时，我还再问着自己这个同样的问题？

什么才是真爱？

2010-01-25T08:36:00.000-08:00

爱，什么才是真爱？
到底哪个人才是你的真爱？
到底怎样的爱才是最好的爱？
包容对方的所有一切？
原谅对方所说过的气话？
忘记对方对你的所做所为？
接受对方说所的一切？
迁就对方的所有，来取得对方的欢心？
不计较自己付出多少？
不计较对方所给的回报？
等待对方有一天的谅解与觉悟？
要等多久？就像等待世界末日的来临？
那样的一天会来吗？
会吗？

祝我早日康复

2010-01-23T19:45:00.000-08:00

那天，星期三，20号。
我的伤口爆裂，血流不止。
叫了救伤车，把我送进了ICU。
他们帮我输血，因为身体里的血液流失了一半。
在医院里，家人特地从家乡赶上来医院探望我。
很感激那些关心我的人，我知道我让你们担心了。
尤其是我的妈妈，我知道我真的真的让她担忧了。
她还跑去问神，带了些符水让我喝及冲洗身体。我知道妈妈一路来都很虔诚于自己信仰的宗教，很少去问神的。但是她说：只要能帮到我的神，她都回去拜。
在ICU待了一天，情况稳定后就送进了普通病房。
住了两天医院，现在在家里休养着。
看来我又得休息多一个星期，暂时都不能回去开工。
这次我真的要小心的照顾自己了，不能在看小任何的手术。
很感谢所有关心我的人，照顾我的人，谢谢你们的祝福。
愿一切都会结束，尽早康复。

p.s:新年就快到了，我一定要在新年前完全的康复，这样我就可以在新年时大吃大喝了（恢复我的真本性），呵呵~！

结婚的祝福

2010-01-19T17:59:00.000-08:00

最近发现我身边的朋友一个个都开始结婚了。有的注册了，有的摆酒了，有的孩子都已经几岁了。
有时看着他们的照片，心里很替她们开心，因为她们都找到了自己要的人，可以托付终身的人。
这不是件容易的事情噢，外面不知还有多少还是单身的人。
我心里对结婚并没有多大的憧憬，或许是时机还未成熟。
每次参加别人的婚礼时，我都会觉得很感动，男生必须历经辛苦，才可以把老婆娶回家。男生对女生的承诺，不论伤心，开心，痛苦和疾病，大家都必须手携着手，一起渡过每一天。整个过程虽然是超级累，但是却是人生中最高兴的一天。
祝天下所有的情人：开心的过着幸福的每一天！

生日快乐给我远方的哥

2010-01-19T17:19:00.000-08:00

今天是你的生日，先祝你生日快乐噢~！

特别奉献这篇部落格给你，因为这是我唯一可以给你的生日礼物。

认识你也有5年了吧？（如果没有记错，那时我还在读着大学）。

谢谢你这5年来对我默默的支持，我真的很感激你。不论什么时候，高兴，快乐，伤心或难过时，你都愿意做我的聆听者。所以我能为你做的就只是这么点小小的东西。

看见了你的部落格，似乎你不是很喜欢自己的生日。其实我们根本不用去理会别人对生日的看法，我们也不需要去跟随其他人的习俗。最重要是生日这一天要开开心心就好了，不用贵重的礼物，不用大朵的鲜花，也不用华丽堂皇的生日派对，因为这天是你的生日，关其他人什么事了啊？呵呵！

p.s: 生日也是等于母难日，不妨给妈妈煮个鸡蛋面线啦！呵呵~！

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Read Before You Eat

2010-01-10T05:56:00.000-08:00

Recently I am having problems in going toilet, so call constipation.
So I am thinking to take the medicine which given by a doctor from xx specialist.
Luckily before I eat it, I search this kinda medicine in Google,
And this is the result which I found:

www.herbal-supplements-guide.com/senna-natural-laxative.html
(Can't copy and paste the result here, this is the disadvantages of using blogspot,lol)

So, all my readers, kindly read through all the the instructions before consume any medicine, try to search from google what's is the ingredients of the medicine and what's the side effect.

Be a smart consumer.

And responsible for your own life.

p.s. finally i choose to eat dry prunes which I bought it from grocery shop. Hope it would help.
hehe

人生中的第一次篇：住院记

2010-01-10T04:00:00.000-08:00

那天是我人生中的第一次住院。
医院并没有像想象中的那样恐怖。
一大清早，便到了医院登记。
等了没多久，某某护士先生带我到我的病房。这是间两人床的病房，但是另一个病床是空的。放下我带来的衣物，坐在病房里等待护士小姐安排我进手术室。
很快的，护士小姐交了一件青色的手术衣给我，叫我把它换上去。
换好了后，护士吩咐我躺在流动的病床上，然后把我推到手术室。
好心的护士小姐在间中和我闲聊了几句，安慰着我不要怕。
她们把我推到了手术室外等候医生的安排。
进了手术室，护士在我的手背上插了支镇，好让她可以把麻醉药注射进我的身体。注射了之后的两秒，眼前变得黑暗，开始失去自觉。
醒了之后，只知道自己的伤口一阵阵的剧痛，我心想手术应该是结束了。
还在半醒不醒的情况下，我用那有气无力的声音叫着护士，告诉她我真的真的很痛，不能顶了。
护士连忙注射止痛剂，很快的伤口的剧痛变得轻微了许对。
之后我就被推回到了自己的病房。护士小姐帮我开了电视，好让我可以解闷。
看了没几分钟我开始觉得很睏，就渐渐的进入梦乡。
没多久就有个员工把食物送进了病房。我看了看食物，没有胃口吃，只喝了几口水，又继续睡了回去。
不知睡了多久，护士小姐进来巡查我的病情，我试着坐了起身。以起身就开始觉得头晕的不得了，来不及去厕所，吐得一整地都是水。
就这样迷迷糊糊的我睡了一整天。晚上时，我没有把电视给关了，好让有些声音陪着我。
第二天我就出院了。
那些护士们真的很照顾我，态度也很好。真的很谢谢她们。
但是我不想再有这种经验了，真的通到不行。
现在在家休养的我，还得每天都依靠pain killer来过日子。
希望我短时间能够快点的过去。
祝我：早日康复

2009 跨过2010的超短篇日记

2010-01-05T21:56:00.000-08:00

匆匆忙忙的过完了2009,平平淡淡的一年，没有什么特别的事件，也没有发生人生突变的事情，感谢老天爷的眷顾。
超平安的平安夜，平安驾车回到自己的老家。度过了和家人最开心的圣诞。
New Year Eve,也没有什么大势的庆祝，只是呆呆的呆在家里，悠哉游哉的度过三天假日。
1月4号，回到了忙碌的公司，看着那些人进进出出，忙这个忙那个的，而觉得自己是最空闲的那一个。
1月5号，做了人生的另一个决定，签了卖身纸，今年是好是坏都是看它了。
1月6号，是今天，回去看人人都说超级好看的蓝色人（avatar)
1月7号，会被推进手术室，任由医生宰割，希望能够平安的出院。
1月8号-难过到不敢想的日子
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1月21号，终于度过最难挨的日子，重新开始过开心的日子。

决定

2009-12-22T06:12:00.000-08:00

很久以前听人家说过这句话：
爱上他，是因为当初对他的了解不够深。
放弃他，是因为现在对他的了解太过深。
现在我真的是深深地体会到这句话。
这几天的我都是夜夜难眠，心里总是隐隐作痛。
痛得很想很想的做一些傻事；很想大声呼喊，很想立刻抛下一切离开这里，很想回到自己的家，很想就此了断此生。
但是我做不出，所有的东西都压抑在我心底最深最深的地方。
我试过痛快的哭，但是这样又如何？
每当我第二天醒来时，同样的问题还是缠绕着我。
每天都对自己安慰地说：没关系，总有一天他会明白我的，他会变的。
但是日子一天天的过去，我心里就一次比一次的失望。
心里不断的问自己：我还在等些什么？我心里明明就有了很明确的答案。
只怪自己拿不出那勇气来踏出那一个好大好大的脚步，觉得比登上Kota Kinabalu的山还要难。
现在心里已经做好了决定，不管这决定是对与否，是好是坏，也没有人知道了。
我只知道我已经问心无愧了，我绝对不会后悔。

Twilight

2009-12-05T06:19:00.000-08:00

Twilight, every1 know what's this mean.

Is a very famous movie, which is showing in the cinema.

Twilight, not a very attractive name to me.

At first I did not even want to watch that movie.

Untill recently, this movie is really attracting my attention. I can hear the advertisement in radio everyday.

Every1 talk about Twilight, the dialouge in the movie, the character, the love and romance.

So, I decide to search this movie in PP Stream. But unfortunately, the movie is only for VIP (VIP- have to pay $$).

In my heart I think, maybe i do not have the fate to watch it.

Okay, just fine.

I back to office for work, cleaning all my stuff in my pc.

Suddenlly I found it (Twilight 1) in my office PC. Only I recalled that, Jing Ying has given this movie to me before.

So happily I copied the movie to bring it back home.

I watched it, wao, it's really a pretty nice movie. The vampire fall in love with a human.

The dialouge I like the most is :

I can read every mind in this room apart from yours. There's money, sex, money, cat. And then you, nothing. That's very frustrating ~Edward Cullen~

Watched Twilight2-New Moon. Very sad movie, Edward left Bella for a reason.

Wanna know the ending? Just watch it. This is the movie which you cannot miss out for 2009.

I ♥ Bangkok

2009-12-04T20:23:00.000-08:00

This is my 1st trip to Bangkok. I went to Pratunam area.
At first, in my heart I was thinking, erm...nothing much special about this city, just another place for shopping and leisure.
Well I am wrong, I fall in love with Bangkok.

It is such a nice place to live in.

1) They have a nice and friendly citizen.

2) Their stuff is cheap, include foods, clothing, accessories, camera, beer, and so on.

3) Their toilet is damn clean in every where, not like here. You only can found those clean toilet in Pavilion Mall or Garden.

4) Their weather is damn hot during day time. But surprisingly, it is not warm at all during night time. Is abit windy and cold.

5) They have open air pub just right in front of the shopping mall. Their weather is just nice for all these pub, but absolutely not suitable in Malaysia. You will sweat badly if you're clubing at open area in Malaysia.

6) You can see alot students wearing their "unique" school uniform, hanging around the city area. Boys with spiky hair, long hair and fashionable wear. Girls with short, tight skirt and they all are make up.

7) I like their food. Is damn cheap and nice to eat. You can a 35bath noodle soup at the food court in shopping mall like Pavillion.

8) They have alot small stalls along the road side. They sell anything. From variety type of snack to clothing.

9) Every where is temple. Even in front of the shopping mall. Thai people are very strong believe in their religion. You can see alot ppl, from young to old, all are praying sincerely to their God.

10) I like their Samurai Pork burger alot. Only can get this at McDonald in Bangkok.

11) Their coconut is so fresh, sweet and cheap! Only 15Bath for 1.

12) Their 7-11 is selling pork instant noodle, yummy, can have a try!

There are a few main attractions in this area:

- Pratunam mall- a whole sale shopping center, selling all the clothes very cheap if you buy more.

- Platinum mall- a whole sale shopping mall as well, selling all kinda fashionable clothing, accessories and shoes. Is a hugh shopping mall, can spend whole day long inside there.

- Central World Mall- A shopping mall maybe like Mid Valley. You will find a shop call NaRaya, selling all kind of bags. Is a good place to shop for girls.

- Outside of the Central World Mall, there are 3 open air pub with live band. Very happening during night time.

- Suam Lum Night Bazaar- A very huge night market for you to shop. About 800++ stalls at that area. But be aware of the stuffs' price. Thai people said that's the place for tourist only, thus the price is a bit higher compare with other places.

- Grand Palace- A palace where Thai King stayed from long long time ago. 350 Bath for the ticket entrance fee. Take maybe 2 hours to finish the whole palace. Remember no short pants and singlet for woman.

- Siam Paragon Shopping Mall. All the stuff inside this mall is farking expensive. It's about the same as our Pavillion Mall & The Garden.

- Floating market- Located some where in Bangkok. Need 45minutes to 1 hour to reach the destination. The tour guide offered us 400Bath per person including the 2 way transportation and the boat fee. Well, we do not go there, as not all of my friends are interested in it. I am sure I can take alot nice photos if I go there.

- China Town- Nothing much to see here, no shopping mall or night market, just a street. There is a seafood restaurant nearby this area. Cheap and nice.

- Chao Pray River- Their another main transportation. By using this river, ride on their boat, and you can travel from a place to another. They have another special activity on this river. They have a big nice ship, where you can have your buffet dinner on it for about 2hours, and it cost you about 1500Bath.

宫心计

2009-11-16T02:58:00.000-08:00

最近这几天呆在家里追剧-- 《宫心计》

是部好好看的电影噢~！

刚刚听到这部剧的名时，我还以为是部类似《金枝玉叶》的剧情。

《金枝玉叶》这部戏，我只是看到第十集而已，因为真的是sien到另我没有什么追剧的欲望，呵呵~！

《宫心计》起初我只是抱着尝试的态度去观赏，因为大多数的剧我都是看到一半就不想再看下去了。怎知，我一集追一级，看到现在已经第18集了。

剧情紧张，又不会太慢，总之一切的节奏都刚刚好。

宫女，王妃与皇太后的勾心斗角，臣子与皇上的明争暗斗，是是非非，黑与白，搞得你猜不透到底谁是真心假意，谁是奸是忠。人心难测，原本的好朋友，为了自己的利益，转眼间可以变得一个连自己都不认识的陌生人。

人在宫中身不由己，一切都得听主子的命令，任人摆布。每个人都为了自己能爬的更高的地位，不惜出卖友谊，不择手段来达到目的。

某些部分的剧情，往往都是反映出了我们现代人的现实。

当然这部剧里也有一些角色是大好人一个如佘诗曼，郑嘉颖，陈豪，米雪。

记得收看哦~！

杨怡在剧中被一个超坏心肠的宫女折磨。

Birthday Proposal was banned

2009-11-11T05:29:00.000-08:00

Few days more is my boy boy birthday. Thought wanna help him to find a nice restaurant, nice place to celebrate his birthday.

Looking up and down in the to find a nice dining place which we never been before.

Finally I found Biz Cafe located at Solaris, Mont Kiara.

It is a western food restaurant and serves variety of desserts.

They have their own website with photos gallery &....

They have their menu available in their website for you to download. That's the great part.

From the menu, you can know the price range and meals available.

This is the cafe environment

Main course

Main Course

Dessert

Drinks

This is their map location.

Should find a day to go there and try for the dessert,yummy~~!

Birthday Celebration at Marche

2009-11-08T03:45:00.000-08:00

Last Wednesday went to Marche @ The Curve.
This is my 1st time visit this restaurant although I always loutering at the area around The Curve.

I was so excited when I 1st entered the restaurant. It it really different from other western restaurant I have ever been.

At the entrance, the waiters will give you a card (1 person each). The card is for you to order food at the raw ingredients counter.

Once I steped into Marche, I can saw alots of vegetables, fruits, fish, meat, prawns, mushroom and blah blah blah...

We found a table to sit down. Then we started our raw market survey. We walked around the restaurant, checked on all the available raw ingredients in the shop, to find the best ingredients to be put on your dinner plate.

You can order grill chicken, grill steak, lamp chop, grill fish, baked potato, mashed potato, mushroom soup, salted mushroom, dessert, salad, seafood, mix fruit juice and others delicious menu.

During the order session, hand over the order card to the chef, they will stamp on the green card. Wait for a while before you return to the same counter to collect the cooked dishes.

The meal price will be base on the green card which has been stamped.

Kok Shi Birthday

Me and my dear

Kok Shi wanna drink milk..haha

Me!!

The green card to order food

Dear and his Green Card

Mushroom and Chilies..

Vegetables...

Root Beer at Marche

Salad section

Fruit Juice Section

Fresh Potatoes..

Potatoes Section

Drinks Section

三个女人的生日

2009-10-29T05:43:00.000-07:00

某年某日是我的死党的生日。

身为死党的我可从来都没有帮她庆祝过生日，感觉有点惭愧。

就决定买个蛋糕，然后帮她庆祝。

买蛋糕时:

店员：几支蜡烛啊？

我迟钝了一下：er...

心里在算着自己到底几岁了。我去年好像刚刚庆祝21岁生日咧，就想对那个店员说22岁咯。

但是想下想下，又好像不是22料喔，自己还有酱年轻咩？应该是26料吧？

我就对那个店员说：26

阿权就说：25岁啦~！

哈哈，我才知道自己还是25.

不是我不在乎自己的年龄，而是时间真的是过得太快了，快到我都不想再去想自己几岁了。

只是知道时间就是金钱，只想好好的珍惜每一分，每一秒。

25的我们还是single，就只有我们这三个孤单的女人为对方庆祝生日。

26的我们呢？会更好了吗？

27的我们呢？会带另一半来吗？

还是28的我们还是一样的三个女人？
我希望你们都能找到自己人生的目标与另一半。

我知道，因为我也是你们的一分子。

友谊万岁~~！

BVLGARI Launches Major Fundraising Project to Defend Children's Rights, Coincides with 125th anniversary

2009-10-26T04:17:00.000-07:00

ROME (Nov. 4, 2008) — 2009 marks the 125th anniversary of Italian luxury goods company Bulgari. In honor of the year, Bulgari has chosen to partner with Save the Children's Rewrite the Future campaign. Save the Children is one of the largest independent international organizations for the defense and championing of children's rights; they are present in over 100 countries around the world.

The Rewrite the Future campaign is committed to providing quality education to 8 million children living in conflict-affected areas by the end of 2010.

Considerable progress has already been made by rebuilding schools, supplying much needed school supplies, and protecting children from abuse and exploitation — thus paving the way for a durable change in almost 6 million children's lives.

Bulgari's ultimate goal is to raise €10 million for Save the Children by the end of 2009, of which €1 million will be donated in advance to kick off the initiative.

Next they will introduce a new, limited edition ring in Bulgari stores worldwide. The ring is made of silver, in tribute to Sotirio Bulgari, the company's founder who started as a silversmith in the 19th century. It also features Save the Children's logo engraved on the inside. Each ring will sell for $290.00, of which $60.00 will be donated to the Rewrite the Future campaign. The ring will be available for purchase from Feb. 1, to Dec. 30, 2009, in Bulgari stores worldwide. It will also be available in select department stores, and on Bulgari's e-commerce website, active exclusively in the USA.

Numerous celebrities from the worlds of film, culture, and music have already agreed to support the initiative. These include: Willem Dafoe, Benicio Del Toro, Sally Field, Fiorello, Andy Garcia, Valeria Golino, Jason Lewis, Julianne Moore, Gabriele Muccino, Kimberly Peirce, Ben Stiller and Sting.

Library at eCurve

2009-10-25T21:43:00.000-07:00

Go library is for study?? Not really...

There is a pub & bistro at Cineleasuire name as Library.

Not a place for study, but a place for drinks and dining.

Nice environment, more for drinking purposes.

They have plenty of drinks menu, but limited food menu..

Thus, if you want to have a good dining, here is not a place..

But if you want to have drinks, enjoy the environment and hang out with friends, you can choose to come here...

This is a non halal place, so sorry for muslim...

The price is quite pricey.

e.g for Hoegarden- RM 36 for 1 pint. Happy hour can get free 1/2 pint.

If you go places like Brussel Beer Cafe, the Hoegarden is just RM18 for 1 pint (Happy Hour) and RM25 for non happy hour..

Go check it out.

Budget Malaysia 2010

2009-10-25T20:41:00.000-07:00

* Taxpayers will get tax relief on broadband subscription fee of up to RM500 from 2010 to 2012. Civil servants can apply for computer loans up to a maximum of RM5,000 from the govt once in every 5 years. --> Good, can apply for Streamxy liao.

*Conversion of PTPTN loans to scholarships for students who graduate with 1st class honours degree, beginning from 2010, --> Good for all thos local uni student include non bumiputra student, wise step...

*Offer of netbook package, including free broadband service, to university students for RM50 per month for 2 years. --> This1 is the best, why GOV did not apply this when I' am still a student,sigh...

*Tax of 5% to be imposed on gains from the disposal of real property from Jan 1, 2010. Existing tax exemption will be retained for gifts between parent-child, husband-wife, grandparent-grandchild--> I can buy more present to my falimy member liao...kekeke

*To promote prudent spending, a service charge of RM50 a year to be imposed on each principal credit card and charge card; and RM25 a year on each supplementary card, effective from Jan 1, 2010. ---> Shit~! I hate this, have to cut most of my credit card liao...

*The maximum income tax rate for individuals to be reduced to 26% from assessment year 2010. Personal relief increased to RM9,000.--> Decrease 1%? Only good for those high salary ppl, not for me. But also not bad lah, at lease personal tax relief has increase RM1000.

*Employees' EPF contribution to be increased to 11% again, on a voluntary basis, effective immediately. However, from Jan 1, 2011 employees' EPF contribution will revert to 11% --> Should not apply the 8% at the 1st place, later ppl all no money during old age..

*Personal relief for EPF and life insurance schemes to be increased to RM7,000. --> Yeah, can buy more insurance...

p.s. Plan for your future, from now on keep track on all of your resit.

一个人的天空也可以很蓝

2009-10-19T00:07:00.000-07:00

今天懒得去上班，就特地拿Emergency Leave留在家里，做些自己该做的事。

大清早起身，刷了牙，洗了脸。便开始做家务，扫地，抹地，洗衣，晒衣。

把这一切做完了后，梳洗了干净，就自己一个人下去楼下的kopitiam吃午餐。懒得驾车出去，一个人的午餐只想随随便便的解决。

这时间是午餐时间，可以看见很多上班族在附近用餐。

我找了一个比较隐蔽的桌子坐了下来，点了餐单，我拿了几本杂志，就坐下，边读着杂志便等候我的午餐上桌。

我心里想着，这些杂志就因该是为我们这一些单身来用餐的人所准备的吧？

读着读着，不知不觉地我的食物也很快的上桌了。我边吃边读，这样我就不必显得怪怪的，也可以避开一些八卦陌生的眼光。

一个人到店里吃东西，对我来说早已习惯了。试过自己一个人大清早就起身去吃早点。我最喜欢早早起身去吃早餐，不但可以享受到早上的清新空气，又可以避开人群（城市的人都没有早起的习惯）。这样对我来说就已经是一件很幸福的事了。可惜我还没找到一个愿意陪我这么早起身去吃早餐的人。

我也试过一个人去电影院看一些自己想看的戏，就觉得，这样子也是一种幸福的事。

回到家，打开了自己的notebook,打了http://www.blogspot.com，想打理一下自己的部落各。知道自己平时都没有什么时间去写。今天一个人的自己，却有了源源不绝的题材和大家分享。才知道，一个人时，可以做这么多的东西。

才真正的了解到自己，原来我不是怕孤寂的人，而是怕自己没有喜欢做的东西或者没事可以做，了无生趣。

忽然想到了阿嗓的叶子：

叶子是不会飞翔的翅膀

翅膀是不会落下的叶子

天堂原来应该不是妄想

只是我早已经遗忘

当初怎么开始飞翔

孤单是一个人的狂欢

狂欢是一群人的孤单

爱情原来的开始是陪伴

但我也渐渐地遗

忘当时是怎样有人陪伴

我一个人吃饭旅行走走停停

也一个人看书弹琴自己对话谈心

只是心又飘到了哪里

就连自己看也看不清

我想我不仅仅是失去你

回家

2009-10-18T22:46:00.000-07:00

上个星期回家去了，差不多有整整一个多月没回家了，其实心里真的很内疚，因为我知道妈妈从来都没有怪过我为什么那么少回去。在她的心里一定是想着我在KL工作是多么的忙碌，多么的辛苦，所以她从来都没有垂足我多一点回家。

回到家，我最想做的事就是煮一餐好吃的东西给家人吃。我不是很喜欢在外面吃，第一：一家人出去吃东西，不但是花费高，还要浪费时间去到马六甲市区（今时今日的马六甲市区真的真的非常多车，多人，parking lot有超级少，所以我尽量避免去市区了。）第二：喜欢吃什么就可以煮什么，这才超爽的。第三：有可以吃到我亲手煮的食物，那就是最幸福的了，呵呵！

上个星期六，我一到了野新，就马上去爸妈的菜摊找他们，说今晚在家吃火锅。妈妈极度赞成，因为她最不喜欢我们浪费钱出去吃。为了买足材料，我并不得意下去市区的超市买那些火锅材料。回到了家，匆匆忙忙换了件家里衣，就开始准备晚餐的材料。就一直这样没有休息的准备到了傍晚，大家都工作回来了，我们才一起吃。

晚上时，累到半死的我倒头就睡了。只有在自己的家睡得最香最甜了，

第二天一早，我就和我姐姐们，去到市区吃早餐（因为Jasin的早餐大多数都是ah neh开的，那天又是他们的新年）。吃了一些不好吃的早餐，服务又超级的差，大家一致同声的说，绝对不会有第二次来这一间kopitiam了。

当然我们都没有这么快回家，因为很难的的来到了马六甲市区，所以我们就去pahlawan parade走走咯。预料中事，pahlawan的parking已经full到不能再full了（除非你是11am去那里，不然你别想park那里）原本想放弃去shopping的念头，但是我那个超级霸道的外甥却哭闹着要去shopping gai gai.衰在心软的我就说：好咯，我就去碰碰运气到附近找parking咯。

幸好老天爷对我还不赖的，我们很顺利的找到了parking...我那两个外甥开心的在超市里玩了好一段时间，而我和我姐姐们也获益不浅买了些自己的东西。之后大家就开开心心的回家了。

回到家，妈妈已经把午餐准备好了。吃了午餐就和妈妈闲聊了起来。听妈妈说最近工作很不顺心，爸爸和妈妈一直都很想辞职不干算了。但是她却又在担心，辞了这份工，他们应该做什么？爸妈都这么大年纪了，手停口也停。当时我心里很难过，因为不能帮到他们什么，一直在责怪自己为什么不能赚多一点的钱来养他们？为什么我不能开口对他们说：做到这么辛苦，就不用作了啦，你们到处去旅行好了。我真的希望在他们的有生之年时，让他们从此不必再挨苦，过些舒适的日子。我不求大富大贵，只求我家人平平安安，健健康康，不用在为紫米油盐担忧。这样不会很过分吧？

到了傍晚我在依依不舍的驾车回到这个寂寞的大城市。虽然这里满街都是潮男朝女，到处都是夜店，超市，mamak，但是回到这里，我的心，却变了一个很大很大的无底洞，那种感觉好可怕。

如果不是为了钱，如果不是为了家人，我宁愿回去和我家人在一起，享受那天伦之乐。

“绝世衰男”榜出炉陈冠希刘德华分列冠亚军

2009-10-13T22:06:00.000-07:00

谁是“绝世衰男”？陈冠希“众望所归”荣登榜首，天王刘德华紧追在后“衰”出亚军！近日新加坡某电台节目展开听众投选，选出“绝世衰男”结果出炉，尽管艳照事件已超过两年，但陈冠希仍以33%高票当选“绝世衰男”。

陈冠希当选第一衰
　　因艳照风暴形象插入谷底的陈冠希当选绝世衰男，不良形象让他这回再次“赢”了！有听众批评陈冠希在艳照事件上“没担待，遇到事就像缩头乌龟”，他若要翻身，相信要比常人付上加倍努力！

华仔瞒婚成罪状
　　天王刘德华向来是影迷心目中的“黄飞鸿”，奈何不久前鬼祟拜祭岳父，加上隐瞒婚讯一事曝光，正面形象受挫，摆脱不了“说谎天王”臭名，在“绝世衰男”中赫然以22%得票率紧追陈小弟后头，差一点就“衰”出冠军宝座.

倪震勇夺第三名
　　倪震长得一表人才，才华也很出众，年轻时办杂志已在追求玉女掌门人周慧敏，任何人在他“势力”范围内对周玉女有好感，都会“死直直”。现在，倪才子有了周慧敏，仍在夜店与辣妹“湿吻”，令其勇夺第三名。

抛妻一族都上榜
　　“金曲歌王”曹格上个月底涉嫌与香港歌手侧田打架，不久又被爆料曾酒后失控，拿刀架着老婆颈项。负面新闻不断以致他在“绝世衰男”中名列第4。

　　票选活动其余的17%，则由罗嘉良、陶大宇、谢天华、郑少秋及李宗盛“平分”。有听众甚至将经常与无线女星频传绯闻的陶大宇、被指夜店出轨的谢天华笼统称为“抛妻一族”；离婚半年后再婚的罗嘉良也被轰“抛妻弃子”。虽然爱已成往事，投郑少秋和李宗盛一票的听众，相信还在为“肥肥”沈殿霞、林忆莲不值吧。

Common marriage mistakes to avoid

2009-10-13T01:09:00.000-07:00

Marriage takes work and isn’t something that can be left alone to look after itself. For a marriage to survive it needs to be nurtured and cared for. There are certain things that couples do or traps they fall into, whether it is consciously or sub consciously, that can undermine a marriage despite all the best efforts and intentions to make it stronger.

We look at some common factors and mistakes that couples make that lead them down the road to divorce.

Lack of respect
One of the main ingredients for a healthy marriage is respect, and without it a marriage can be doomed.

Having mutual respect for each can go a long way towards getting you through the conflicts and problems that arise. If two people don't have respect for one another, they can't find common ground or ways to solve their differences when they occur without demeaning the other partner.

Lack of sexual intimacy
Many couples go through this for various reasons and it is a lot more common than we are led to believe. Women tend to experience low sex drive for various reasons. This can often clash with a a man's sexual needs. Whiles ex isn’t the be all and end all of a relationship, it is an extremely important factor as it promotes a closeness between partners. When someone is deprived from physical attentions and sex it, can lead to feelings of bitterness and resentment.
Mai Chong, a marriage counsellor in Kuala Lumpur says that “if your spouse is having difficulty establishing intimacy, it is not due to stubbornness or even conscious choice, but rather to unconscious patterns and fears.... persuade them to seek expert help as they can determine the roots of this issue and the positive steps they can take.”

Lack of honesty and trust
Dishonesty and lies will destroy any relationship, and lead to the biggest demon in a relationship - a lack of trust. Without trust, paranoia will grow to a level that may even be unsbstantiated and eat away at your relationship. No relationship lasts without trust.

Jealousy
Jealousy in small doses is healthy to a relationship, but an excessive case of the green-eyed monster will tear a couple apart. This emotion usually stems from feelings of insecurity, whether it be because of a past experience or because of something your spouse has done. It doesn’t matter how you reassure yourself; your mind just runs wild.

Not listening and communicating
Communication is key to any good relationship “If you are unable to talk to each other and listen to what the other has to say then it will be impossible for the both of you to work through problems and other issues that you may be having” says Kelli*, who has just separated from her husband because of difficulties communicating with each other.
A communication breakdown between couples ultimately leads to mistrust and doubts. Don't bottle up feelings. If you have reason to be upset, tell your partner. After all, if he or she can't reassure you, who else can?

Together forever: keys to a successful marriage
Just like there are things that should be avoided within a marriage, there are also things that it needs to thrive as a happy one.
“Couples need to be altruistic towards one another and put each other's happiness first," says Sharon Lee, a psychiatrist. “Couples who do this will be more satisfied with their marriage than ones who don't.” Having an unselfish regard for another person’s wellbeing will ensure that you always have their best interest at heart. But remember not to go to extremes and compromise your own needs.
A marriage needs total commitment from both parties and will fail miserably if one person is half-hearted.
Friends are also important to a marriage. While it is essential to spend quality time together, a couple also needs a social outlet away from each other, and friends provide this. Friends are also a good emotional crutch in times of trouble.
Finally, it goes without saying that love is the most prominent and important element in a successful marriage. A love that is unconditional with tenderness, physical affection and a fulfilment of sexual desire will ensure that a marriage is complete.

没绯闻男星大PK

2009-10-12T23:13:00.000-07:00

花花世界，情人多多，娱乐圈的才子佳人每一天都在上演著背叛与反背叛的戏码，但还是有些男星非常专一，一起来看看吧！

甄子丹
香港一线武打巨星甄子丹，妻子是华裔小姐冠军汪诗诗。婚后为甄子丹育有一子一女。两人虽为闪电结婚，但感情甚好，甄子丹本人也杜绝一切緋闻现象，珍惜婚姻家庭。

欧阳震华
1982年即出道的欧阳震华，20多年来一直稳居香港TVB当红小生之位，虽然他曾与无数女明星合作拍戏，却从未传出过緋闻。与妻子傅洁嫻于1996年结婚后，两人一直非常恩爱，与兄弟夜蒲，他也会携妻出席。

黄日华
1983版《射雕英雄传》让观眾从此记住了黄日华这个名字，之后黄日华又扮演了不少让人印象深刻的角色。自1985年，黄日华与同是艺员的梁洁华结婚后，从未沾染任何緋闻，20多年来感情深厚、令人羡慕。

张宇
张宇和老婆十一郎是一对珠联璧合的夫妻。张宇作曲，十一郎写词，感情深厚融洽。张宇深爱十一郎，与緋闻从不沾边，对家庭负有很强责任感。

周润发
周润发的婚姻也跟他演的戏一样高潮迭起，与小龙女陈玉莲轰轰烈烈到黯淡收场，与余安安闪电结婚9个月后离婚，直到遇到他人生中的第二个“莲妹”——陈薈莲。陈薈莲是周润发生命中的支柱，发仔到好莱坞发展，如果没有懂得处理合约和会讲英语的发嫂，发仔就算再努力，也不可能这么快坐上国际巨星之位，贤內助功不可没。

刘青云
刘青云对妻子郭蔼明的感情十七年如一日，两人1992年因合拍电视剧《大时代》而结缘拍拖，经过多年爱情长跑后于1997年结婚。郭蔼明是港姐冠军，有硕士学位，她与刘青云一黑一白，学歷相差很大，当时很多人不看好他们，现在那些人早跌破眼镜了吧.

张智霖
在妻子袁咏仪眼里，张智霖最大的优点就是“专一”——对她的爱专一，喜欢吃的东西专一，爱玩的东西专一。

陆毅
陆毅和妻子鲍蕾是在大学排练时擦出火花，最后开花结果。鲍蕾最欣赏陆毅的单纯︰“他就是该红的人，跟他接触的第一年，当时我觉得那样的男孩最好不要走得太近，因为他长得太帅，肯定会花心。后来一起演小品，和他接触越多、了解越深，就越能发现他身上的优点。”

张学友
张学友是“四大天王”中唯一让女友曝光的天王巨星，也是第一位在婚姻生活中开花结果的艺人。1996年，相恋了10年的张学友和罗美薇在伦敦秘密完婚，结婚十几年来感情一直不变，恩爱有加。他还与她相约七八十岁时仍要拖手沙滩漫步。张学友也因为强烈的家庭责任感而得到了更多歌迷的喜爱。

张家辉
张家辉与关咏荷经歷了13年爱情长跑才修成正果。张家辉好男人形象有目共睹，不仅从未有过緋闻，而且对于老婆关咏荷的要求，他几乎有求必应，还干脆把赚来的钱也都交给老婆管理。张家辉说：“我不会流连夜店，更不会去吸毒，倒不是刻意维护形象，是真的不喜欢那些东西。平时就是喜欢在家陪老婆呀，在家看看书，或者和朋友吃饭、聊天，一起去看电影。”

黄磊
黄磊和孙莉属于一见钟情式的浪漫奇遇，黄磊至今清楚记得第一次看到孙莉时的样子，当然打动黄磊的还有孙莉的个性。“她的个性比较淡，欲求比较少，不贪心，也没什么追求享乐的欲望，这最打动我。”同样的，黄磊是万千女孩心目中的白马王子，但在孙莉眼里不过是一个真实的男人。

李连杰
国际功夫巨星李连杰1989年在美国拍《龙在天涯》遇到利智，一见钟情，后来要求与前妻黄秋燕离婚。利智说“如果你爱我十年不变，我们就结婚”。1998年，他们结了婚。当时李连杰基本上算是一个二线演员，无名无权无钱无影响力。没想到，利智选到了世间最大的宝藏，十几年来，无论李连杰的事业到达多高的巔峰，也从未因为緋闻而与利智感情生变。

李安
在李安夺得第一座小金人的同时，媒体认识了一个女人：林惠嘉，李安的太太。多年来林惠嘉一直默默支持著李安的梦想，在美国，在李安没有收入来源的时候，生物学女博士林惠嘉教书、做科研，成为家中的经济支柱，而李安也为太太做好后勤工作，买菜、做饭、带小孩、等拍片机会，这样的生活持续了6年。成功之后的李安，生活发生了翻天覆地的变化，但是他和妻子的感情却一点也没有变。他说，这一切不为別的，就为妻子在他落魄的时候始终尊重著他。

梁家辉
梁家辉是香港影视圈一线红星，可是，在他刚出道生计最艰难的时候，曾经因影片问题被封杀，只好在香港摆地摊，妻子江嘉年出钱帮他渡过难关並协助他走上之后辉煌的演艺道路。梁家辉即使在大红大紫后，还是深爱著老婆，在老婆中年发福后，对她依然不离不弃，並且从来没有与其他女艺人闹出过緋闻。

女扮男装艺人PK

2009-10-12T19:25:00.000-07:00

在观众眼前，女演员通常都会以漂亮的外形示人，不过，有的时候也会有点比较另类的形象，那就是女扮男装。看看以下的女演员，你是否也对她们女扮男装的扮相留下深刻印象？

林青霞︰说起女扮男装的女演员，相信多数观众都会想起林青霞。她在好几部香港武侠片中，反串男角，展现最帅气的一面。林青霞先后主演了《东方不败》、《新龙门客栈》、《天龙八部》、《东邪西毒》等影片。

叶童︰叶童在电视剧《新白娘子传奇》饰演的许仙。这个文弱书生的角色，情深意重，却又手无缚鸡之力。既没有刻意精雕细琢，也没有矫揉造作，一切都是清新，自然。叶童当年演绎的这个“男”主角堪称经典。

周迅︰中国电视剧《大明宫词》中，周迅饰演小太平。这个天真无邪、活泼好动的角色，周迅演来活灵活现。周迅笑表示，演‘小太平’其实一点也不难，从小调皮捣蛋的周迅只是把自己小时候的模样给演了出来。

赵薇︰赵薇在电影《赤壁》中饰演巾幗不让须眉的孙尚香。这个角色虽然是女生，可是，却豪气逼人。尤其是当影片来到孙尚香女扮男装混入敌军阵营的那段时，赵薇儼然成了一名英武又可爱的小兵。

《神雕侠侣》组合PK

2009-10-12T19:19:00.001-07:00

金庸著名小说《神雕侠侣》曾经被翻拍成电视剧好几次，儘管如此，观眾们对这个故事却依旧百看不厌。每每有新版本的《神雕侠侣》播映，总会在观眾和小说迷间掀起討论热潮。最受观眾们关注的莫过于男女主角杨过和小龙女的角色人选。

刘德华、陈玉莲版：陈玉莲饰演的小龙女一身白衣，不食人间烟火，刘德华饰演的痴情独臂杨过也基本符合原著精神。当时刘德华刚刚出道，阳光的气质加上少少的婴儿肥，演起少年杨过可说活灵活现。至于陈玉莲，由于她本身个性就像小龙女，外冷內热，也特別容易演出小龙女独有的气质。

古天乐、李若彤版：当年，拍摄这部戏时，古天乐与李若彤都还不是甚么大牌，直到电视剧播放后，古天乐就迅速走红。李若彤饰演的小龙女肤色白皙，双眸有神，古装扮相很有特色。而古天乐饰演的杨过长相外形与原著中成年后的杨过极为相像，前半段的眼神，有父亲杨康那种坏坏邪邪的感觉，后半段经歷多后，就展现出成长后的稳重。

任贤齐、吴倩莲版：这部戏可说是一部另类的《神雕侠侣》。小龙女不再白衫翩翩，而且头上的小辫子无愧于“非洲小龙女”的称号；任贤齐饰演的杨过的扮相也没有其他杨过那种不羈的感觉。由于这部剧与其他版本出现太大区別，当年开播的时候，还引来不少观众的批评。

李名顺、范文芳版：新加坡的小龙女范文芳扮相轻柔，看上去给人一种神圣，不可褻玩、不可侵犯的感觉，气质上比较接近原著。至于李名顺饰演的杨过显得较为情真意切，对小龙女的爱意尽显于脸上。不过，李名顺的外貌看起来老成，在演绎少年杨过那一段，確实看来有些彆扭。

黄晓明、刘亦菲版：黄晓明的造型有点漫画风格，在演绎少年杨过时亦正亦邪的眼神也很有“杨过”的感觉。刘亦菲所饰演的小龙女就像未沾尘土的翩翩仙子，眼神中闪烁著单纯的光芒，她与原著中描述那外貌看来非常年轻的小龙女相契合。黄晓明、刘亦菲两人堪称歷来最完美的《侠侣》组合。

美女扮丑女PK

2009-10-12T18:38:00.000-07:00

阿Sa《情癲大圣》：在香港电影《情癲大圣》中，阿Sa的超级猪扒丑女造型除了形同乞丐外，还外加蒜头鼻和哨牙及满身大毒瘤，顛覆阿Sa娇俏甜美形象。就连电影公司將丑女造型放到网站上，都没有被纷丝们给认出来，甚至连Sa妈都不认出丑女造型照片中的人是自己的女儿。

赵薇《少林足球》：漂亮的“小燕子”赵薇在电影《少林足球》里头彻头彻尾地变成了“丑女”。满脸的暗疮、脓包，標志性的大眼睛，也变成了“小眼睛，单眼皮”。尤其是画上大浓妆的一幕，更是让不少人错觉像见到“鬼”一样的“惊艷”。

李欣汝《丑女无敌》：曾经在“红楼梦中人”中国全国选拔赛中就躋身8强的李欣汝为电视剧《丑女无敌》付出惨痛代价。不但在一个月內魔鬼式增肥，以致心脏受重压，还因为首次带牙套经常流血不止。这部电视剧在中国播出后，吸引到不少网友的关注。大多数看过李欣汝本人照片的网友都惊嘆“她本人比无敌漂亮太多了”。

莫文蔚《食神》：莫文蔚向来就被人冠以“东方美人”的美誉，美丽的脸蛋和修长的美腿，让她总是观眾眼中漂亮的女星。然而在周星驰的电影《食神》中，莫文蔚的形象却彻底被顛覆。那左右不对称的双眼，一嘴的大齙牙，还有那一张锅底脸，一切的一切都与东方美人的艷丽相去甚远。

郑秀文《瘦身男女》：身型纤瘦的郑秀文在《瘦身男女》中，“一夜增肥”被塑造成超级胖妹。导演杜琪峰、韦家辉没有借助电脑特技，而是请出好莱坞著名的特效化粧师史蒂夫‧约翰逊，为男女主角刘德华、郑秀文特別製作价值超过100万美元的橡塑胖人模型非常神奇逼真。

容祖儿《美丽在望》：香港无线电视剧《美丽在望》的最大卖点就是容祖儿的“肥妹”扮相———癩痢头、齙牙再加上一副胖身材，容祖儿这回真是不惜为艺术“牺牲”。不过，容祖儿在这部剧中虽然天生貌丑，但心地善良。

张柏芝《求爱上上签》：张柏芝在由王晶执导的香港爱情影片《求爱上上签》中，自毁形象，齙牙横眉的造型美女形象荡然无存。鼻梁上生眉毛，眼眉连成一线变成“M字眉”，头发蓬松及满口“烂牙”，丑得十分嚇人。就连片中与张柏芝演情侣的许志安都大呼︰“我这辈子没见过这么丑的女人！”。

梁咏琪《百变星君》：梁咏琪在周星驰的电影《百变星君》中最令人印象深刻的就是那副四眼钢牙造型。美女变丑的要诀就是要把美的地方都先遮住，所以双眼大而有神的梁咏琪扮丑，眼镜是不可或缺的道具，梁咏琪戴副大眼、镜箍著牙的形象真是深入人心。

林嘉欣《怪物》：在电影《怪物》中，美女林嘉欣扮演一位痛失儿子的母亲，因无法接受儿子死去的事实转而抢夺他人的儿子。林嘉欣在片中的造型只能以“嚇人”来形容。尤其是在脸部要做出烂得一片模糊的模样，而她身上每个部份也要做到恐怖噁心的样子，以期让观眾有像看到“怪物”一样的感觉。

UM must play global ranking game all the way

2009-10-12T18:09:00.001-07:00

UM must play global ranking game all the way

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Photography

2009-09-29T21:34:00.000-07:00

很久都没update我的部落格了。原因？
1）很忙咯，每个weekend都有activity的。去cameron 啦，去seremban吃螃蟹啦，帮朋友庆祝生日啦，等等。得空时我才一一的update啦。
2）最大的原因还是因为公司的connection咯，每次要update部落格时，都不能upload photos的，所以我就懒得要写了。
3）公司的业务太多东西做了，从来没停过手，打字都打到手酸了，哈哈。
4）我本身不喜欢在家update部落格的，因为在家时没有电脑桌，要打字的话会很辛苦。

但是最近呢，我超喜欢edit照片，拼命找出以前的照片来edit.看来我是edit到上瘾了。
不知道为什么了，可能本身就是喜欢看美美的东西，美美的女孩，帅帅的男孩，可爱的小孩，美美风景和照片。不知道为什么，看了这些心情会好很多。可能这就是我疏解压力的方法吧？

以前小时候就喜欢用画画来疏解压力的。每次读书或做功课到很烦时，我就会找些东西来画。但是我只是会用铅笔绘画啦，最不喜欢涂颜色了。到现在我还收着以前我所有的作品，舍不得丢咯。觉得本身画的东西还不错的咧，也有拿过学校举办的绘画比赛第二名咧，呵呵~！想到自己那么厉害都很开心咧（觉得自己有点变态和自念，呵呵~！）

但是知道在画画这方面发展的话，也没有什么钱途的啦，所以就转行去拍照了，哈哈。如果你有兴趣的话，就到我的facebook那边观赏观赏我的作品吧，一切观赏都是免费的哦，但是一定要add我做friend先啦，嘻嘻。

希望我会有更多的作品来让大家观赏啦，好期待哦~！呵呵~！

Miss Singapore pleads for forgiveness

2009-09-28T18:21:00.001-07:00

Miss Singapore pleads for forgiveness

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Job Application

2009-08-27T00:49:00.000-07:00

Fresh graduate? Change job?

Looking for better offer? Better position?

Trying hard to find a job? Need a new job desperately?

If you're 1 of them, pls email your resume to my personal mail box at:

gylon_meisiah@hotmail.com

Let's give a try!!

老板之唠叨篇

2009-08-17T21:14:00.000-07:00

最近每天上班，到了公司，on 了pc,就开始埋头可干到5.45pm,然后走人。
不知道新的老板是不是看我们不顺眼，因为我们每天都是准时下班的。
他就整天给我们一大堆的东西做，除了要做现在所做的东西之外(data extraction），还要做Post Campaign Analysis,还要每天想新的idea来增加骆驼银行的利润，有了idea后，还要做成propasal，然后把这些idea propose给那些product owner,然后launch campaign.
对了，这就是我每天都要做的东西，我相信你们也不是很懂我在写什么，但是没关系，总之我就是有很多的东西做就对了。
我同意以上我所做的东西，是我的本分，我应该做的，但是老板们，请你们不要再加重我们的负担了。
还要我们每个礼拜准备presentation来向你报告我们在做什么，你知道这样很浪费我们的时间的吗？Team的报告要一份，individual的报告又要一份，难道你们不相信我们真的是在工作的吗？你以为我们是躲在电脑后面打game吗？
每天都暗示又明示我们叫我们像你一样，加班到11,12点晚上。难道你以为我们像你一样的咩？不用回家的啊？不用陪家里人的啊？难道加班的人就叫做勤劳的人吗？你真的认为那些在公司加班的人就真的是100%的在工作吗？我们这些准时回家的人就是没有认真工作的人吗？你总不能要每个人像你一样加班到这么迟吧？自己早上迟到还敢讲我们准时回家的人，起码我没有迟到啊！
什么东西都是要听你们的，还说我们是同事，有什么不愉快的事可以拿出来商量。真后悔我把心中的话说了出来，原来你们只是选择喜欢听一些你们喜欢听得内容而已。没关系，我学了这一堂课，叫我百忍成金，万事都不要跟那些有权利过你的人吵。唉，我忍。
我做了的东西，你们都不知道有没有review的，我已经给了你们这么久，你们一点feedback都没有，做东西的速度真的比乌龟还慢。大老板问progress时，你们就没有声音出，又没有告诉大老板我已经交给你们了，是你们自己在pending着，反而被大老板怪罪的人是我。我知道了，好像我们这些江鱼子就是那来殿尸低，吃死猫的。
把一大堆东西丢给我们做后，就全部都跟我们说，URGENT，叫我们学会什么时time management.这个因该是我们跟你们说的才对吧？你们吃到这么老了，到底知不知道什么是time management？不是要在这么短的时间里，全部东西都抢过来做，要证明给那些大大大老板知道你们是很厉害的。这么ambitious的话，会害死我们的你们知道吗？
我想现在我最需要的就是那两个课程：
1）Time Management
2) How to Manage Your Boss

Internet Banking

2009-08-10T22:28:00.000-07:00

This morning we have a meeting about the Internet Banking (IB).

I think every1 know what is IB, but do you really using it? Or you feel that IB is a very unsecured transaction which everything is virtual? You don't trust the system? You prefer to do all the banking transaction via counter or machine?

For me I like IB very much, 1st is because I am lazy type of person, I hate to go branches and queue up just to make payment.

2nd is I hate the traffic condition in KL, and inssufficient parking lot (some more the parking fee is expensive). By using IB, I no need to do all these crapy work, I just need to log in to my IB and settle all my bills and payment.

In the meeting my boss suggested 1 brilliant idea ( I think is quite a good suggestion, but seem like no1 else like it)

He suggested that every successful IB transaction shuold send a confirmation email/ receipt to the account holder.

I found that this is quite important to the IB user. Althought everytime you done your IB transaction it will prompt out something sort of receipt for you to print out, but..not every1 have the printer.

Thus, if every bank can implement this email receipt to sent to personal mail box, this would be perfect for all the IB user. User can choose either to print out the email receipt or just need to keep it in soft copy. With the email receipt, we can cut down the usage of paper and printing materials. Other than that, customers can keep all the IB transaction receipt for very a long period and without worrying the lost data or system error in bank.

My colleague has an experience on this, her father in law had paid all the Hire Purchase loan. But at the end of the day the Bank still claimed that his father in law never do any loan repayment and still owing the bank a sum of money. The bank just gave a reason saying that their system down and they can't find any payment record for the loan account. Fortunately, his father in law did kept all the transaction receipt for 10 years.

How if he did not keep any copy of the receipt? What would happen? He have to pay the loan again.

So make it a habit to keep all the receipt. ( I think we need a room just to keep all the receipt for whole of our life, LOL)

Kelab AmBank Group Blood Donation Drive 2009

2009-08-04T20:40:00.000-07:00

Today is the Blood Donation event in Menara AmBank.

It started from 9.30am to 5.00pm.

I went there very early in the morning, as I scared that there would be very crowded like last year.

As per expectation, there were alot people when I reached at 9.30am.

Luckily I did not wait for too long before my turn.

This is my 4th time of blood donation. Since I did not have much money to donate, so I donate my blood,hehe.

If any1 of you are interest to donate, there will be another 2 more events as per below:

Bangunan AmAssurance, Jalan Lumut
Date : Thursday, 6 August 2009
Time : 9.30 am – 5.00 pm
Venue : Lobby

Tropicana Fairway 3, Damansara
Date : Tuesday, 11 August 2009
Time : 9.30 am – 5.00 pm
Venue : Lobby

All successful donors will be given a token and a certificate. Donors are reminded to bring along your NRIC, staff ID card and blood donation card (if available).

Please refer this before you donate blood:

Eligibility to donate blood

1. You are in good health today.

2. You are between 18-60 years of age.

3. You weight is above 45kg.

4. You have more than 5 hours of sleep.

5. You are free from any medical problems eg:High blood pressure, heart disease,diabetes,operation 6 months,migraine,flu etc.

6. You have not taken any antibiotics recently.

7. You have taken a light meal before donating blood.

8. You are not involved in any of the following activities: · Homosexual relationship · Bisexual relationship · Multiple sexual partners · You have sexual contact with those mentioned above · Drug abuse

9. Your last donation is more than 3 months ago.

10. For female; · Not pregnant · Not menstruation · Not breastfeeding

11. Do not donate blood if ; · You had been living in the United Kingdom (England, Northern, Ireland, Scotland,Wales, the Isle of Man or the Channel Island) or Republic of Ireland from 1980 to 1996 for a period of 6 months or longer. · You had been living in Europe from 1980 to the present for a period of 6 months or longer.

Maybe some day you need it. =)

PTPTN

2009-07-28T20:25:00.000-07:00

相信大家都知道什么是PTPTN吧？

它不是像H1N1的病毒，也不是什么榴莲的品种...

它是Perbadanan Tabung Pendidikan Tinggi Nasional 简称为PTPTN.

就是给那些金钱上需要支柱的学生，继续升学到学士和博士。

当然我也是这堆学生中的一分子，借了不少的钱来完成我大学的学位。

这PTPTN很普遍啦，不管是啊猪啊狗，有钱没钱的人，总之是在本地升学的人，10个里面11个人都是有响PTPTN贷款的。

当然也有一些比较聪明的学生就会去申请JPA啦，Maybank的贷学金啦，TNB啦，Petronas啦，因为这些都是不用换钱的（当然代价就是要考得很好的成绩啦！）

响PTPTN贷款很爽的，在就学，又有钱拿，FAMA Bank (Father & Mother Bank)又给零用钱，那时候读书的我们根本就不知道赚钱有多么的辛苦啊！

有的拿PTPTN的钱来放FD(定期存款）,买手机啦，出新车啦，因为利息很低嘛，才3%而已（现在降低到1%而已），很便宜hoh??

但是你们不知道PTPTN每个月还钱的时候都要给admin fee,RM48.75??

不管你有没有还钱，都要给这个Admin Fee，一年就要给RM585的Admin Fee了。

所以你每个月还钱时，最好就是还超过RM50,不然的话你每个月只是在还Admin Fee而已。只要还超过这Admin Fee,那么多余的钱就会减掉Prinsipal了。这admin fee会一直charge到你还完了所有的钱为此。

所以不能不换钱，不然的话你会越欠越多。

救命啊，一个月要给RM50的admin fee,这利息真的是超贵啊，怪不得我身边的朋友一个个已经在开始还钱了。

你要借PTPTN?请三思！！

Happy Sunday

2009-07-27T22:57:00.000-07:00

Last Sunday we went to lunch at ss17,Happy Mansion, a cafe named MM Cafe..We were the only customers when we reached that shop. Is a very nice cafe with good environment and very clean.

Not many choice for their menu. So 3 of us ordered the same dish, named grilled chicken chop(RM15.90 per dish). They have 3 sauces for the chicken chop, black pepper, brown sauce (actually is mushroom sauce) & BBQ sauce.

We ordered 3 different sauce each. After tried all 3 sauces, only the mushroom sauce is most tasty. The chicken chop is nice to eat and quite juicy.

Another friend he ordered the MM burger, a very huge burger with 2 slice of meats.

After the meal my friend tried their most famous dessert called brownies with ice-cream on top (this is quite pricey, RM 9.90). The brownies tasted good, not too sweet. My friend did asked the waiter what is the ice-cream brand? why so expensive1?? LOL

When we are sitting there digesting our food, there was a bunch of ppl came to the shop (not gangster lah,haha). They was the movie production team, most of them are Malay and with modern look (maybe some of them was artist, but I cannot recognise lah..) They set up the location for the movie shooting.

So you all want to taste nice food and see artist?? Come to this cafe lah...

Afternoon Part....

We went to foot reflexlogy in the afternoon. This is my 2nd experience. RM 40 for 45 minutes, not very expensice lah...

Luckily I did not feel much pain when the person ( China man) massaged my foot. Through the foot massaged they can know which part of your body has problem. Mine is not enough sleep,when he massaged the most painful part, I did not feel suffer at all, but I feel like very comfort. I think I am addicted to foot reflexology,LOL..

Next time wanna go and try again...damn nice!!

Are you Looking for Job??

2009-07-26T18:18:00.000-07:00

最近一直找工，东找找西抄抄。

我真的真的对这份工作很怨卷了，想转行了。

每天早上起身，我总是带着不干愿的心情去上班。

拖着沉重的脚步，拉着长长的脸，心不甘情不愿的坐在电脑前，做着永远做不完的工。

每天的目标就是等放工，拜一等拜五，月头等月尾。

有时真的很想拿起bag就这样子走人回家或者是24小时炒老板鱿鱼算了。

这些都不是我要做的东西！！

很想现在就退休，做自己的生意。但是我心里清楚的知道现在还不是时候，因为根本没有本钱。

每天心理在想着有什么生意是行得通的，从卖雨伞到开金银纸店等等。

昨天回家时，姐对我说了表姐近来的状况，老公的生意亏本了，关门大吉，又不要去找工，整天只会摊开双手向父母要钱，待在家做败家女。

心理想着，我将来应该不会像她将吧，因为家里都没有什么身家可以败，哈哈！

唉！不要想将多了，我肯定不会像她这样的啦，我可是冯家的唯一希望咧！（因为我读最多书了！）
如果你也在找工，不一定要去visit那个http://www.jobstreet.com/ 的，也可以去 http://jobscentral.com.my/看看一下。

还有我今天收到new way的email,他们正要请人，如果你很喜欢唱k的话，就不妨去试试，蒋你就可以每天都有免费的k唱了,哈哈！（因为我是这样想的！）

Banana最好不要申请这份工啦！（看如果会华文的话，工作机会是不是会对一点？？）

照片太小？看不清楚？那么就：click on the picture to enlarge.咯！

The Pursuit of Happyness

2009-07-20T22:12:00.000-07:00

Another film by Will Smith- The Pursuit of Happyness (2006)

Ya,this is an old movie..I watched this movie last 2 years ago, when I entered to GE agency. We have meeting on every Wednesday after work. The meeting not only talked about figures and target, sometime it also has movie session.

This movie is about how a salesman trying hard to success in his life inconjuction with all the problem he met along the way.

A very touching movie on how a single father struggling in life and career.

Is worth to watch.

Ice Age 3- 3D movie

2009-07-20T01:11:00.000-07:00

Last Thursday went cinema to watch Ice Age 3.

This is my first time watch 3D movie in cinema. The ticket price is much more expensive than the normal ticket as you have to pay extra RM5 for the rental of 3D glasses (red& blue spec).

Before the movie started, normally they will show some advertisement. All the advertisement shown were in 3D format.

I am so excited as this is my first experience. I tried to watch the screen without spec, there were so much different. Without the spec, all the images you will see from the big screen are double vision (like when you're drunk,lol).

I almost get shocked when I saw an object flied out from the screen, thought there was a insect flying from no where and approching me. My dear asked me what happen. LOL, luckily no1 saw me...haha

Really thanks to my dear to accompany me to watch this movie in cinema. I know that he does not really like to watch animation movie.

I feel very happy as I can watch my 1st 3D movie with my beloved...haha...

P/S: I saw alot people snaped their own picture with the 3D glasses, i think most of them also 1st time watched 3D movie,hehe..

The Dog

2009-07-16T00:15:00.000-07:00

Yellow Labrador
Tibetan Spaniel

Norfork terrier

Maltese

Japanese Spitz

(Cute2~!)

Jack Russel Terier

(Looks like very blur and innocent,haha)

Golden Retriever

(My favourite dog!!)

I like this Chi Hua Hua, look like Allan Liew,haha...

With big big and watery eye..

cute~~!

Bichon Frise

Beagle

(This is my favourite too!!)

For more details:

www.thedog-club.com

小鱼的故事

2009-07-13T21:36:00.000-07:00

以前每次听MY fm时，都会听到某某明星的劝告：

从前有只小鱼，它住在鱼缸里。它整天在鱼缸里游来游去，对鱼缸之外的世界深感好奇，整天想着跳出这个渔缸。

终于有天它从这小小的鱼缸跳了出来。可惜这一切都太迟了。鱼不能没有水，这小鱼就这样一命呜呼了。

故事的教诲：不要等到失去了，才来后悔。珍惜你所有的一切。知足就是幸福。

2009-07-13T07:55:00.001-07:00

Donnie Yen 甄子丹

Born: 27 July, 1963, GuangZhou, China

Height: 175cm

Weight: 77kg

Idol: Bruce Lee

Status: Married

Movie acted: Wong Fei Hong- Once Upon a Time in China II
Wong Kei Ying in Iron Monkey
Wing Chun
Jing Wu Men
Flash Point
Painted Skin
An Empress and the Warriors
IP Man

I started to know Donnie Yen when I was in secondary school. He took part in a lot movies and dramas but most of it, he act as a bad guy character or supporting actor (Ka Le Fe) . He did become the main actor in Jing Wu Men (Action series), from the drama, I started to know who is him. At that point of time, I felt that he is so great in Kung Fu + handsome, and I know one day he will become famous.

Today, he acted so successfully the movie called “IP Man” (Although he did not get the best male actor in the 28th Hong Kong Film Award, but IP Man won the Best Film of the year). I really like that movie very much, full of action, moral, spirit, patriotic and love. It really touched me. At least this movie is much more different from the others action movie which acted by Jacky Chan & Jet Lee (and they are old, I have boring with their film). They should retired and let the new blood to take their place. (LOL)

Before the IP Man, he did act a great movie as well, called “Flash Point”. That movie is a bit violence and does not suitable to all age group of audience.

Waiting his next movie, hope that he will do better in his next movie.

Here is some photos to share with you all.

Men dream body: Six Pax

His 2 children..

Note: He have his own website at: www.donnieyen.com

2 New Family Member

2009-06-30T07:42:00.000-07:00

Last 2 weeks, we bought 2 cute hamster (1 male & 1 female,for breeding woh...) from pet shop.

This is my boy 1st time feeding hamster and he is so exciting (I am not as excited as him, as my sister fed it before. But at the end, both the hamster die of sickness, LOL)

At 1st, we bought a basic cage for them. Inside the cage there is a food bowl, a small house and running wheel for hamster to exercise. We also bought the hamster bed (Wooden made), bath sand and food as well (mix seeds and fruits).

The 1st day when we brought them home, they are not use to the new environment. When I tried to touch them, they bite my fingers. But sooner or later when they used to our smell, they won't bite anymore.

They eat quite alot of foods and they are choosy. Not all the foods they like. Mostly they will will to eat flower seed and oat. We have bought 1 pack of flower seed from mini market for them to eat since they like it very much.

We also bought 1 running ball for them (Just like the hamster in the BOLT cartoon movie). So that they can running across the house inside the ball.

They have alot shit. We have to clean up the cage and the small house very often.

My dear really very hardworking on take care of them. Every morning after he wake up, he will go visit his hamster. Once after come back from work he will play with them. Sometime he talk to them too,haha, funny...

A bit scare if the female hamster really get pregnant 1day. Scare that the female hamster will eat the baby hamster. Need to do alot of things.

Untill now, they have no name. Dunno what name to give them also...haha

Just call them hamster1 and hamster 2 lah...haha

Wall-e Clip

2009-06-29T07:27:00.000-07:00

I found all this video clip, is funny,haha...

Hope you enjoy too..

Pantene Advertisement

2009-06-28T03:01:00.000-07:00

Feel touch??

Gemini 双子座

2009-06-26T09:39:00.000-07:00

双子孤傲是因为他们自信，双子善变是因为世界在改变，双子没有耐性是因为他们发现了不值得，双子冷漠是因为他们害怕被伤害，双子花心是因为他们没有找到真爱，双子不在乎是因为你没有看到他们的敏感。

双子们的笑永远都是最单纯的，无论什么时候你都会看到一直都在笑的双子，因为他们一直都只想把自己的快乐带给别人，却只把悲伤留给自己，你没有看到过双子的眼泪是因为他从来不会在被人面前哭，当你看到双子的眼泪的时候，那么说明你是真的把他们的真心夺走了，因为双子真的很需要一份值得的依靠，他会每时每刻的在乎你的一切，他们很敏感的，会跟着你的快乐而快乐，跟着你的忧愁而忧愁，跟着你的改变而改变，但在你面前他们从来都是快乐的。　　　

一提到双子的爱，一般人肯定都会说:双子座的人最花心。可是是真的是这样吗？双子和异性的关系好只是因为他们非同一般的亲和力，而双子的真心只有一个，当他找到的时候，他就会付出自己的一切让对方得到幸福，他要的不是他自己能和对方在一起，他要的是对方的幸福，和双子在一起会感到很随和，因为他会包容你的一切，你的一切优点和缺点，和双子在一起绝对不会觉得被锁住，你只要做自己就好，因为双子喜欢的就是真实的你，做作的人根本不会得到双子的心。

有人说双子很坚强，什么都不在乎，是阿，表面的双子确实很坚强，但是内心他们比任何人都脆弱，也许这也是风向星座的人的一个特性，决不会让别人看到自己脆弱的一面，因为他们都是一个有一双别人看不见翅膀的天使，天生就会给别人带来快乐，双子们的眼泪是透明的，别人看不见，可是自己却能看得很清楚这样的透明的泪给自己开来双倍的痛。

双子们的人缘很好，因为他们懂得你什么时候需要什么样的帮助，而且双子们会根据不同的人有不同的交往方式，双子很容易相信别人，所以经常会被欺骗，可是在欺骗后他们仍然会轻轻的笑笑然后说：没关系的，他骗我肯定会有原因。双子从来不会知道后悔是什么，因为他们时时刻刻都在为别人想，总会设身处地，可是这样别人根本就不知道，就是因为他帮助别人太多了，所以在他需要帮助的时候却总是孤立无援，然后继续的笑着，笑着找到一个角落，留下那颗透明的泪。

当双子的朋友真的很幸福哦！因为当你遇到什么困难时，他会比你更着急，甚至会失去自己宝贵的东西也会帮助你，他会带给你快乐帮你分担忧愁，可是你却看不到他的孤独和无助，当双子看到你不高兴的时候，无论这时他有多么的郁闷，他也会立刻露出最真实的笑容来帮助你。

说双子善变，那只是片面之词，对于双子真正喜欢的东西，它是会执着的让人害怕的，就是因为内心太像小孩子太单纯，所以对于他们真正喜欢的东西，他们是根本就不知道放弃是什么的，除非是他们自己发现这个东西不值得，否则他们是绝对不会放弃的，只要是他们肯定的，他们就会有超出别人很多的坚持和执著。

双子的自尊很重要，对于他们最重要的恐怕就是这个了，他们懂得原谅，无数次的去试着原谅，就算别人让自己千疮百孔，他们也会无条件的有自己的宽容，有自己的原则和原谅，就是因为他们的自尊，他们的自尊心让他们相信这个世界永远都是最美的，因为他们的自尊不允许自己放弃这个世界。　　

在双子的世界里没有分享，只有是你的或者是我的，他们不会把一样东西去和别人分享，因为他们认为这样对那样东西是不公平的，因为他在乎每一个人每一样东西的感觉，只要他认为这件东西是自己可以割舍的，他绝对会无条件的退出，去成全别人，对于欺骗过他们的恋人，他会选择原谅，但绝对不会再和他们在一起，因为他懂得这样不值得。

双子座的人真的很可爱，真的很需要人的保护和安慰，他们不会放弃世界，却会放弃自己，去成全别人，他们懂得原谅和理解，无论这一秒他有多讨厌一个人，下一秒看到那个人脆弱的一面，他还是会去无条件地帮助他，真的很傻吧？但是傻的好可爱，好让人心疼，痛过以后，他们依然会笑着面对以后未知的路，继续原谅，继续理解，继续快乐，继续的傻着，改变双子真的很难吧？因为他们的心都是金刚石作的，但不是说他们无情，他们的执着只是针对自己的，那么孤傲的一个人，也只是针对自己，因为他们不知道怎么表达自己的内心，所以他们选择了沉默。>> >

Michael Jackson

2009-06-25T18:34:00.000-07:00

This morning tuned on the radio, heard a bad news...

Michael Jackson passed away this morning 7.26am. after reportedly suffering a cardiac arrest.

Below are some history of Michael Jackson which I search from Google.

He was born August 28, 1958 - one of 9 kids. His father reportedly nicknamed him "Big Nose".
Mike was born a cute African-American guy and very talented.

Despite the current, sad stories about his lonely, sad childhood, Mike grew up surrounded by famous people and an adoring public.

At age 5, Mike and his brothers were the amazing 'Jackson 5'. They played locally, then in New York and Philly.

They were "discovered" by Gladys Knight and pianist Billy Taylor at the famous Apollo Theater in Harlem. By age 11, Mike was a Superstar.

At age 13 he went solo and had his first #1 hit at 14 with "Ben" (a touching love song to a rat).

One of my favouraite song of him is Heal the World and You're not alone...

Abit sad when i heard this news. Why talented people always die faster?

I also don't know...

I hate Morning Meeting

2009-06-24T20:42:00.000-07:00

I hate early morning meeting.

First, have to rush to office, make sure reach office earlier and prepare the neccessary thingy.

2nd, have to rush my breakfast too.

3rd, cannot go toilet during the meeting, this can cause constipation leh...

This morning meeting used up 2hours and 15 minutes, can watch Transformer part I and part II already. lol...

Doing nothing for this whole morning.

After breakfast go meeting. Come back from meeting can go lunch already...LOL

Conclusion is I don't like meeting. The better is make all the thing short and straight to the point.

Online Purchase

2009-06-23T18:03:00.000-07:00

Yesterday JY sent me the clothes which we have bought from internet...

OMG, is suck...totall out of my requirement...

The quality is suck, the sewing very rough...

I bought 4 pieces with total RM90, some of it RM25 and some is RM20. Non of it is nice and can be wear..

That time when I surf through their website, all the clothes and shirt look nice..I decided to try online purchase since I never try it before.

I tried to look for people comments from their website, but I cannot found any of it. Then nevermind lah, since the clothes is so cheap...

But, haiz...really disappointed me.. I think I will just donate out the clothes to others lah...

Lesson Learnt: Not to buy something cheap and not to buy clothes online. All the pictures are for display only...lol

For your reference: www.dude.my

World at Work

2009-06-22T22:29:00.000-07:00

This is my 1st time writting about my work. I never write anything about it, because I don't like to talk about my work at all...And every1 also having their own problems at work, nothing special lah...

But today I really want to express out...I really cannot keep inside my heart anymore...help!! Is going to burst out...

To my boss:

1) Please lah...don't keep pushing me on my work, I am an adult already, I know how to manage it. Everyday I already try my best to extract, extract and extract data to all the requestor. I also don't wish to see all the forms are pending on my desk, I am trying to clear it out..

2) Please don't tell me that everything is prioritize, I only have 1 brain and 2 hands. Even though we have alot PC here, doesn't mean we can do all the things at the same time...

3) Please don't keep helping outsider and bully us together with them. We are your staff, you should be the one who prottecting us from attack by outsider.

4) Please try to create a 2 way communication with us and discuss before you decide anything. What you think or decide doesn't mean we manage to do.

To my other LOB colleagues:

1) Please respect me as a friend lar...I am helping you to the data extraction, not work for you, so please talk to me nicely. I can work according to the rules, very strict to you, if you wish I am doing so. What I promise to you doesn't mean is an agreement between us. I am just trying my best to help you out. But you never apprciate, some more report to your boss and said that I have promised this and that. Please understand that I promise to you help because I treat you as friend. But since you treat me like that, there are no more friend between us.

2) Thanks to you also, because I have learnt something: Kind to some1 mean cruel to myself.

Stress lah!!!

离别

2009-06-18T22:05:00.000-07:00

敬滢离开这里也有一个星期了。（这次我没写错你的名字了吧？嘻嘻！）

只从你离开了这里，我们还是一样这么的开心，有说有笑的，只是少了一把mono tone 的声音，哈哈！

你走了后工作当然多了很多咯。上面的人又一直吹我们赶工，全部工都要prioritized,手指凹出不凹进,一直帮外人来对付我们。唉！一句说完：辛苦啊！真的很羡慕你可以这么快的离开这里，希望你那边会更好啦！

现在helmi负责你的dashboard& Six Sigma,希望他会做得开心啦！

谢谢你这些日子来的协助，谢谢你借我你的耳朵聆听我的心声和不满。如果没有你，我的心理一定很不平衡了。

很高兴认识你这位朋友兼旧同事，谢谢你的耳机，我很喜欢哦。如果送我蓝牙我会更喜欢，嘻嘻！（现在收起来先，舍不得用，嘻嘻！）

得空记得找我去喝茶咧！或者去lunch，反正近近而已，哈哈！

Keep in touch & take care...

祝你有个美好的家庭！（因为你最大的愿望就是回去Muar嫁人，然后做个master holder的黄脸婆，嘻嘻~！）

p/s: 结婚时记得请我噢！

Passion Fruit百香果

2009-06-18T07:24:00.000-07:00

Last week before Jing Ying left, she gave me 2 passion fruits.

The fruit did not look nice, a bit dry. As she said that her house don't have a fridge. The look is a bit ugly lah..haha

This is only my 2nd time seeing passion fruit. First time was at my sister's house...A dry passion fruit, that time I also don't know what is that,haha..

Until Jing Ying brought it to me and told me that this was passion fruit.

I follow Jing Ying instruction on how to eat the passion fruit.

Cut off one of the edge of passion fruit. Use a tea spoon to scoop out the content and eat along with the seeds.

After I cut off the skin, it doesn't look nice...Yellow colour and juicy, thought cannot eat anymore, but it smell nice, so I tasted it..Erm, nice taste...but the seed is quite big size loh, same as watermelon seed,haha..

I searched some photos of passion fruit from Google, and luckily it did look like what I ate just now...Safe...haha

让懂你的人爱你

2009-06-17T01:08:00.000-07:00

谢谢你的这一封短讯：让懂你的人爱你。

看了后我泪流满面。

希望有天你也能找到这个人。

Neck Exercise

2009-06-15T22:43:00.000-07:00

巧克力

2009-06-15T22:06:00.000-07:00

你喜欢吃巧克力吗？

巧克力可以做很多东西，巧克力蛋糕，巧克力糖，巧克力牛奶，巧克力色的衣服（骗你的啦，：p)

嗯，巧克力蛋糕啊，还好啦，我有时候喜欢吃，有时候觉得太甜了。

巧克力糖我也是不随便吃啦，只是吃贵的而已，哈哈。例如：Ferrero Rocher,Godiva（这牌子的超贵，几粒而已都要RM50++,那时是有人请我吃的啦，哈哈！）,Famous Amos的Almond巧克力也是我的最爱。

平时没什么特别的话，我是不会吃巧克力的啦，因为我本身不是很喜欢吃甜的食物。但是我特别喜欢在office吃巧克力，可能是我用脑太多了啦！哈哈！就好像那个《死亡笔记》里的'L',只喜欢吃甜食，因为他想太多了。 :P

回到家里时，那些巧克力收在家里几年都没人动，哈哈！

也有人说来“那个”的时候吃巧克力的话是最好的了，因为它可以帮你的身体保暖，让你的肚子暖暖的，蒋就不会痛咯！呵呵！

如果不开心的话也可以试下吃巧克力，因为巧克力会让人体产生一种荷尔蒙，可以让人变得开心起来。

小小巧克力，益处多多哦！

Restaurant City (RC)

2009-06-14T21:27:00.000-07:00

Recently I started a game call Restaurant City in Facebook.

Is a game where you can manage your own restaurant.

You can hire staff, buy staff custome, restaurant interior design, table arrangement and find for ingredients for dishes.

At first you will only have a 3 tables and 2 staff in your shop. There are basic dish for you to run your restaurant.

There are alot dishes for you to choose to sell to your customers : Starter, Main Course and Dessert. In order to earn more experience point, you have to updrage your dishes by collecting more ingredients.

You can get free ingredient when you do your first visit to your friends restaurant. Or you can buy from a stall, but is a bit pricy lah..haha

The best part I like in this game is you can design your own restaurant, from designing the restaurant roof to the toilet...haha

I have upgraded my dishes to max level. I used 2 days time to complete it by adding alot unknown friends into my FB. After getting the free ingredients, I deleted them...

Now I am only focusing on up my experience level and earn more money for shop renovation and decoration.

I am really addicted to it. Everyday after work, I will rush back home. The 1st thing I will do when I reach home is on my PC and log on to my RC. Open the shop and let the business run.

Alot people are playing and addicted to it. Every night the game will be hang, slow and very hard to log in..But no matter how hard to log in I will still keep trying untill I success..haha

Lan Lan, his sister, his sister's friends, his brother in law, my colleagues all are playing the games and chasing each other points,haha, is really fun...

His brother in law is the most powerfull, he everyday played untill 4 am then woke up at 8am to go work. He is doing this for 1 week continuosly. He even come out his own calculation and strategy in order to up level faster.

Even when I am working, I still miss my Restaurant-->Papaya Bistro...

Can't wait to go back home and play it..hehe.. :p

This is my restaurant out look...nice?

This is my restaurant inner look... =)

The Mayonnaise Jar

2009-06-09T23:25:00.000-07:00

The Mayonnaise Jar

When things in your life seem, Almost too much to handle, When 24 Hours in a day is not enough, Remember the mayonnaise jar and 2 cups of coffee.

A professor stood before his philosophy class And had some items in front of him. When the class began, wordlessly, He picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar And proceeded to fill it with golf balls.

He then asked the students, if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again If the jar was full... They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand And poured it into the jar.. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded With an un ani mous 'yes.'

The professor then produced Two cups of coffee from under the table And poured the entire contents Into the jar, effectively Filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.

'Now,' said the professor, As the laughter subsided, 'I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life..

The golf balls are the important things - God, family, children, health, friends, and favorite passions – Things that if everything else was lost And only they remained, your life would still be full.

The pebbles are the other things that matter Like your job, house, and car.

The sand is everything else -- The small stuff.

'If you put the sand into the jar first,' He continued, 'there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls.

The same goes for life.. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, You will never have room for the things that are Important to you.

So... Pay attention to the things That are critical to your happiness. Playwith your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your partner out to dinner. There will always be time To clean the house and fix the disposal. 'Take care of the golf balls first -- The things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.

' One of the students raised her hand And inquired what the coffee represented. The professor smiled. 'I'm glad you asked'.

It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend!

Click

2009-06-09T18:10:00.000-07:00

Yesterday I watched Click (the movie-2006).

Ya, is very old movie by Adam Sandler.

Is a movie about a man with a universal remote control which can be used to remote his own life.

He can pause others ppl, he can slower down the volumn of ppl talking, mute, fast forward, skip the part which he don't like, change language and blah, blah, blah...Thus, he has skipped alot of time in his life until he suddenly become old and he started to feel regret.

Life no take2 and no reverse. Although life is hard, but we must be brave to face it. Enjoy every minutes in your life so that you will never regret.

p/s: Her wife in this movie (Kate Beckinsale) is very sweet & pretty. =

Susan Boyle

2009-06-09T01:00:00.000-07:00

This is a video from Britain's Got Talent.
You'd be forgiven for judging the book by the cover when you meet 47-year-old Susan.
Having never married, sharing a flat with her cat has given her a cheeky sense of humour, and even the judges were ready to write her off, until - that is - until she began peforming her rendition of 'I Dreamed a Dream' from Les Miserables...

http://talent.itv.com/videos/playlist/id_40.htm

She is great.

Best Advertisement for Father's Day

2009-06-08T19:53:00.000-07:00

Kuala Selangor 看萤火虫之旅

2009-06-08T01:21:00.000-07:00

地点：Kuala Selangor的Kampung Kuantan (70++km from KL)

时间：6月6号2009年，下午5pm++

门票：RM 40 per boat (1 boat 4 person)

上个星期六，我，LAN　ＬＡＮ，ＬＡＮ LAN的同事，Ａｌｉｓｏｎ，Ｆｒｅｅｍｅｎ，还有Ａｌｉｓｏｎ的朋友们，一共是8个人，一起浩浩荡荡的去看萤火虫。

我们大楷五点半蒋开车，用小路去，大楷要70km++.不用GPS也可以处到的，因为那些路牌都很明确。有些路段很偏僻，都是油棕芭，路也很弯曲，没有什么路灯，晚上驾驶时要格外小心。

一路上都很平安，没有迷路，哈哈！

到达目的地是才6点钟而已，没有什么人，只是我们这一半游客。看见那里的办公室是封锁着的，没有人。我们还以为是Agung生日所以没有营业。其实是因为没这么早开门，那边卖水的aunty说6.45pm才开哦！所以我们就等咯。

等着的当儿，走到处走走看看咯。看到那些船只（看萤火虫是要坐船的）都是小小烂烂酱的咯，没有引擎，要人手kayak的。我看到了都怕，因为我最怕水的啦！但是没办法啦，好采他们有给救生衣啦，哈哈！

等了差不多半小时，开始有很多人来了。我们就赶快去那个kaunter排队啦，因为要抢在第一个嘛，不然看到半夜十二点都还轮到我们咧！

就这样，男的去排队咯，女的坐着等咯！最可怜那些男生了，office里面没有冷气，没有风扇，而且还是封闭的，简直会在里面kok死咯！个个男生排队排得满身是汉，哈哈！

就将子等啊等啊，竟然等到8点，那些人才来开门买票。那时候的人群早已经人山人海。lol.

我们是第一个上船的人哦。还好上到了船后，我没什么怕，因为河水不急。有一个划手帮我们划船。

不能大声讲话，不能拍照（太暗了，根本拍不到）因为怕会吓着了它们。

哇！美到要死！那些数像圣诞树一样。但是我的朋友说以前他来看时更加多，现在比较少了，而且将要面临绝种了。

大楷划了十五分钟，就u-turn会去那个码头了。

真的值得看啦，但是一次就够了，我不想再傻傻的在那里排队等了，这才是最痛苦的地方啊！

p/s: 不要在十五的时候去，月光太亮会看不到萤火虫的哦！要带太阳眼镜才可以看到！哈哈！

坐飛機都要知道的(ATR)

2009-06-05T05:57:00.000-07:00

坐飛機都要知道的(ATR)

有一位男士坐在一台最先進的豪華噴射客機上。

突然肚子劇痛，想要拉肚子，但所有的男士專用廁所都客滿。

他實在憋不住了，於是跟空中小姐拜託，讓他用一下女生廁所。

空中小姐有點為難，但還是答應讓他去上，還很擔心一再交待他不要碰任何東西，拉完肚子就趕快出來。於是他一陣慌亂進去女廁。

當他拉完後，神智一陣輕鬆…突然發現馬桶旁有三個按鈕，分別寫著HW、HA、ATR.他很好奇，想想這麼先進的廁所一定有什麼特別之處，但又想起空中小姐的叮嚀…不過，還是很好奇，於是他按了第1個寫著HW鈕…咦！竟然從後面噴出清潔屁屁的熱水。

好棒！原來是HotWater之意。他心想，真高級!!連忙看第2個鈕，寫著HA應該就是Hot Air囉！

果然按下鈕後，送來徐徐熱風。真有意思！！那第3個寫著ATR到底是什麼意思？於是他按下第三鈕…

突然一陣劇痛傳來！！男子連慘叫的時間都沒有，就眼前一片黑暗，暈了過去…

當他醒來時已在醫院，護士小姐面色凝重的看著他說：先生，你醒了！！這是你的LP，我把它放在你的枕頭旁,希望你節哀」

哇哇！我的xx！！…！！怎會這樣？他大叫：「我不是在上廁所嗎？怎麼會這樣？」。

先生，空姐說你誤觸了ATR.鈕，那是…Automatic Tampon Remover ！！！ =（衛生棉條自動拔除器）！

整組都「拆下來了」？！

@@@@@@不知道的事......不要去好奇嘗試@@@@@@

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